The committer is serious about finding the right man. She will consider the opinion of others such as her close friends and family. She will most likely be open to going on a blind date set by her friends and avoid meeting people at bars or through networking. She would rather go to places where the two can talk one-on-one instead of a loud crowded place. The committer likes to have long and interesting conversation that will give her an idea of his prospective on life. She will also ask questions and actually be interested in his answers. Eventually, she will open up about her past and is willing to share more personal details as time goes on. Within time she will even be willing to meet his family and introduce hers to him. The committer will also want to introduce you to her friends. She will immediately bring you inside of her group and will want you to join them with activities they do. Most importantly she will communicate with him and enjoy making spending time together.
On the other hand, the non-committer is just interested in finding a man to spend time with and avoid being lonely. However, from the very beginning she is aware that there is no space for a serious relationship. She loves the bar scene and most of the time ends up dating someone she met at the bar. On a date, she will get straight to the point and try to avoid any conversation so she can leave as soon as dinner is