Her father was the nurturing parent. He played games with both children, spent time discussing books, nature, and helping with school projects. Annie’s mother was very conscious of social status and outward appearances presented in the community. Her mother was less than nurturing and insisted on perfection in the home’s appearance as well as both children’s academics, extracurricular activities, and behavior in general. When failure or shortcoming occurred, severe punishment was executed by Annie’s mother, in the form of corporal punishments and restrictions. Her mother was very authoritarian. Annie began searching for love by marrying quite young to escape her mother’s dominance. Her brother escaped through his music and even tried to run away several times.…
T. Ray is what Lily calls her father “because ‘Daddy’ never fit him” (2). Still being upset about his wife’s death, he abhors his daughter and avoids her by having her work alone from sunrise to sunset in the peach orchard. He rejects her when she asks him to buy her rollers to fix her hair and when she asks to go to any social events. He responds to her questions about her mother with anger and violence , resulting him to one time “[throw a jar of blackberry jelly] against the kitchen cabinet” (13). T. Ray’s “only kindness was for Snout… who slept in his bed and got her stomach scratched anytime she rolled onto her wiry back” (3). Having treated Snout with much greater kindness than his own daughter makes Lily feel unloved and…
As the second act progresses, the audience realizes that Daisy is in fact a boy. At age 17 he realizes that he in fact is not a girl and stops wearing dresses. It is clear that he was deeply affected by the negligence of his parents. The audience gets to listen in on Daisy’s therapy sessions and see him psychologically develop over time. Jordan Kubat’s portrayal of daisy’s psyche was perfect. He was able to interpret what a child who experienced what daisy experience would be like.…
‘Goodbye,’ I said, and there was a tiny spring of sadness pushing up from my heart.” Lily is aware that all of her memories are in that house and her town, but she takes the risk of never returning again to help the people she loves. This is a true act of heroism taking risks for the people who mean the most to you. In The Secret Life of Bees women are made to think that they are inferior to men and that men hold all the power. Lily’s father T-Ray treated women very unequally and often said that women had less opportunities and were not able to do all the things that men can do. Growing up her whole life with only T-Ray and no mother-figure has left Lily to believe that women really are inferior and not as capable as men. After meeting the daughters of Mary Lily started to no longer underestimate the power of women as she saw the example of Mary, who was a women that was able to do remarkable things. She also learns the power of women by meeting the boatwright sisters who are all remarkably strong. All the women in The Secret Life of Bees are inner heros in their own way and they all show the true…
Her, the unintentional facade of youth, ornamented with dark chocolate hair that tastes ever-so-satisfying along with her brown doughy eyes that mesmerize every stranger in passing. She is, in much vain, the aspiration of pubescent girls who have lost all patience of the destiny that awaits their near future. Grown men unwillingly glue their eyes obsequiously to her gentle figure, for their subconsciouses must know that a precious moment such as this is one characterized by brevity.…
My impressions about Lily in the novel were that she was very brave with all the things that happened in her life, and she was only fourteen years old, she wasn’t that mature to know exactly all that things that actually happened, she was a beautiful young girl. She got over all the things that got her traumatized. That sense of humor that she had really help her to survive, because she was a happy girl and with a good mood. Lily grew alone, I mean she never had siblings or someone to play with. After a long time she begun to understand more about her mother, she forgive herself, and her growth took her beyond and to be more and more mature. Another thing that I was impressed about was that Lily has always been beaten down and abused by her father T-Ray, and because of that she never was a bad girl.…
Lily Dale always held an eerie fascination for me. Growing up my best friend Kim and I would listen to stories from her mom about Lily Dale. She would tell us how every summer the “gypsies” as she called them, would come and settle in this small community to tell peoples futures. Lily Dale was only about a forty five minute drive from my hometown in Pennsylvania. I remember the first time Kim’s mom told us we were going on an adventure. Her and my mom were going to take us up to Lily Dale, we would pack a lunch to eat by the lake on the grounds and explore the town. Kim and I had all these images and expectation in our mind mostly from the stories we heard. I remember leaving early in the morning and driving the scenic route along the southern shore of Lake Erie. There were rolling…
In the story, A & P the theme highlights adolescence in which the author resonates young woman and men who are coming of age. First, the innocence of three carefree girls unashamed of wearing their bathing suits in a non-beach setting attracts the attention of Sammy, a nineteen year old male who works at the A & P grocery store. Second, the author describes the girls through Sammy as the protagonist who admires their bodies and using vivid imagery to describe their physical appearance of these young girls from a male’s point of view. Sammy describes each of the girls in detail, admiring their bodies and finds one of the three girls most attractive calling her Queenie. To contrast the beauty of these girls, Sammy describes the older women…
Lily Bart, so far, has become an increasingly relatable character for females in the 21st century. While the book is set in the early 1900’s the idea that being single and on her own late in her age is a problem that I feel many females can relate to these days. I found it surprising that the book would be about a woman around 29 years old and still unmarried at the time, but it also shows that maybe it wasn’t as unheard of as our grandmothers make it out to be. Lily is clearly distressed by the idea of being unmarried and is ultimately willing to marry anyone who can financially support her, just like the other girls her age, however, I get the sense from her that she is not going to be happy with solely someone who is only going to support her. Lawrence Selden is clearly a dear friend of hers that she enjoys being around however she overlooks the fact that maybe they could grow to love each other due to the fact that he is not financially able enough to support the life style that she wants. The ironic part of the story is that she too is not even financially stable enough to support herself, however she seems too scared to let go of her inner wants and desires and allow herself to be happy with someone who may care about her more than someone that can give her a lavish lifestyle.…
The relationship that Lily and Zachery have because in Southern America in the 1960s African-American and Caucasain people were nor friends neither werethey romantically involved. Their relationship began as a friendship, even though Lily had always thought that Zachery was attractive, which surprised her because she and her peers had always thought that African-Americans were unattractive. She says,”If he was shocked over me being white, I was shocked over him being handsome. At my school they made fun of coloured people's lips and noses. I had laughed myself hoping to fit in."(Kidd 116). Later on their relationship blossoms into a relationship with a little bit more romance. Lily sees past Zachery's colour and sees him as regular boy, with hopes and dreams; she begins to like him more and more, but she has difficulty coping with the fact that she and Zachery can never be in a relationship due to the difference of the colour of their skin: "It seemed like I was now thinking of Zach forty minutes out of every hour, Zach who was an impossibility" (133). Even though Lily is attracted to Zachery and vice versa, an interracial relationship is frowned upoon and Zachery knows how dangerous it can be, so they both agree to just be friends. He even gives Lily a notebook to encourage her to write, and Lily supports hm in his dream of becomng a lawyer. Zachery positively influences Lily when it is about reaching for her dreams. lily likes zachs looks and personality this makes her very special. she sees past the color of his skin and sees just a regular boy who has dreams like her . i think their view on life drew them together because they both want to see a future with no racism and neither of them agree with what is going on right now in their time.…
The attitudes of both main characters in the story drastically change during the birth of Lily. The husband goes from frantic and excited to annoyed and stressed while the calm wife had quickly turned into and emotional rollercoaster with an evil witch riding it. This shows through their actions, the wife starts to demand a middle name for the baby immediately while the husband did not understand why they couldn’t wait until the whole…
He got mad at her for asking the question and changed the subject. Another thing he does is he never asks her what she wants. Lily is constantly talking about how she has always wanted a charm bracelet for her birthday or Christmas, but T-Ray does get her anything for her birthday and he just gets her a set of pajamas every Christmas. T-Ray does not put himself in Lily’s shoes. Lily was already having a hard time knowing that she accidentally killed her mother, but T-Ray just makes her feel worse about it. One time when T-Ray was mad at Lily he told her that Deborah not only left T-Ray but she also left Lily. Lily had always thought that T-Ray was the reason her mother left. Once T-Ray told Lily that her mom purposefully left Lily behind as well as him, Lily was devastated. A reason T-Ray could have wanted Lily to come home with him is because she is like the last piece of Deborah he has left. August has always said that T-Ray used to worship Deborah. August said that T-Ray even loved Deborah more than she loved him. At first Deborah turned down T-Ray when he asked her to marry him, but in the end she said yes because she was pregnant with…
A parent’s love for a child is quite like no other. Because of this, parents often push their children toward the “best” opportunities, and expect the child to meet their desires. However, if the path the son or daughter might have chosen did not fall into the set category of their parents, there often becomes tension and disapproval. At times, the high expectations parents hold for their children are set in stone, and parents cease to acknowledge what the reality actually is. Kitty’s reality is that she is twenty six, in love with a woman, and lacks a “successful” job. Kitty’s mother takes no notice of what is real, and continues with her questions about how Kitty’s life should be. “You’re twenty six and not getting younger/ it’s about time you got a decent job…what are you doing with your life?/ why don’t you study computer programming? (19-22). Not only is Kitty’s mom disapproving of her love for another woman, but also mocks Kitty’s career choice. Not once does the question of what makes Kitty happy come up, it is only what the mother thinks is best for Kitty. The expectations of Kitty’s mother have only created a larger gap in their relationship, and developed neglect and hopelessness among Kitty. Instead of talking through these important matters, Kitty’s mom’s criticism of Kitty’s life overpowers any chance for approval, leaving her feeling…
As a child, Lily always felt out of place, an outsider. She was born to restless English parents who would cart her around the world, never staying anywhere long enough to put down roots. She felt as if her parents never really wanted her, she was just something that they had to bring along. In Harar the adapted country she grew in, Lily was labeled a "ferenji" (foreigner). "snotty nosed children who ran up and touched me shouting "Ferenji! Ferenji"(51). Even though Lily worked very hard to adapt to the Ethiopian culture, which she did, people never truly understood her, and always misjudged her. Despite knowing her religion Islam really well, she was never really appreciated for who she was. She was always misjudged because of her "white" color. "We do not learn our Islam from farenjis! These people are useless! Liars! Thieves!" (211).…
Sandra considers herself deserving of her father’s respect but she does not earn it. Instead, Sandra passively sails through the life she is dealt. In truth, Sandra never does anything for herself except for her choose to study English. Even her decision to major in English seems driven by petty, antagonism, a half- hearted rebellion against her non-English speaking father. Sandra gently mocks herself; this allowed me the liberty to putter about, embroidering my little poems and stories without my father interrupting with so much as “What’s that you’re writing?”…