illustrates the maturing of a young man. In the summer of 1944, Frank Arnold, a…
There’s much more freedom, and time were you get to do what you want to do. Even though college costs way more you’re not obligated to go to classes, if you don’t want to go you don’t have too. “In high school, you're told what classes to take. In college, you get to choose; that is, as long as the classes don't conflict and you have the prerequisites and the classes aren't closed and you've paid your tuition” (Tang). There’s also a lot more responsibility that goes with this freedom. You get to choose if you want to stay in and do your homework on a Thursday night or go to a party. You don’t have your parents standing over your shoulder. The professors won’t give you extra time; they have a deadline and if you don’t have it in, it will be late and you can’t get around that. College is your first real taste at freedom, you get to be on your own. Some people prefer to be with their parents and have them do everything for them.…
Not only students broaden their horizons and obtain useful knowledge; they also get a valuable life experience and make connections with new people. College helps students to be prepared for the adult life and teaches to be an independent and confident person.…
I was nourished with love from my umbilical cord in my mother’s warm womb, spoon fed when I was able to feed and hand held when I could walk; I was akin to my parents from my conception, as I was their child. But, soon I was riding a bicycle by myself while my father stood and watch, I was placed on the school bus by myself while my mother waved me goodbye, in less than a year, my parents together will send me off to school by myself. From a tender age, still being a mere child, my parents have engraved the nature of independence in me, a key quality of maturity. An essential proponent of the transition to adulthood is obtaining true independence.…
References: Allen, S. G., Clark, R. L., & Ghent, L. S. (2004). Phasing into retirement. The Industrial & Labor Relations Review, 58(1), 112-127.…
In my family we have a tradition of holding a rites of passage for the 13th birthday of any sibling in my family girl or boy. The purpose of the rites of passage is to mark the transition from childhood to adulthood, it also symbolizes for my family being dead to childish things and alive in more adult hood. For boys its learning how to become a True man, for girls its learning how to become a true women. A true man or woman and not what the society calls a "man" or "woman."…
Every year a class of high school seniors graduate and then begin their lives as adults. While the choices they made in high school are important, the choices they make after this will be of the utmost importance. A decision of how to start their lives as adults either joining the workforce, the armed forces, or attending college are the choices they have to make. A lot goes into which direction the student will steer his or her life. Pressures of going to college come from not only school teachers, but family, friends, and peers also. Teachers tell their students that college is the best way to go if they want to succeed in life, as many careers require further education beyond that of a high school diploma. Parents are always glad to see…
As humans, we all grow into mature adults. As you know, adulthood is much different from your childhood. Grown women and men have different rituals and outlooks on their everyday life, that differ from a kid’s point of view. Along with being older, money, family, and love start becoming more important to you than ever. Responsibility and awareness are going to be more meaningful to you.…
Most adult students attend school for a purpose. They want to advance within their job, they are looking for a second career, or they would like to be able to communicate with their children that are in college. Most adult students do not have time to stay on campus and socialize as do their younger classmates which most of the time live on campus. This is one of the main differences between the young and adult students. Most adult students attend college and leave when it is time to leave. The young students have a purpose but also have time to enjoy the college life that surrounds them.…
The transition from adolescent to adulthood is something everyone has or will go through in their life, in the new generation of Millennial this transition seems to be elongated and now referred to as “Emerging Adulthood”. Emerging Adulthood is a coined term by Jeffery Arnett for a new transitional period between adolescence and adulthood where people experience self discovery, instability, optimism, and self-focused in the ages of 18-25. This new transitional period is a phenomenon that only occurs within individuals in developed countries, middle class socioeconomic status, and most often attending a secondary school. It is a fascinating new time period in which has the media roaring in questions about what this will mean for the future…
Going to college is very important to me and has many purposes. Attending college can be challenging, but it can only help you and your future. One important reason to attend college is to further your education. Furthering your education not only helps you understand things in life, but it also allows you to get a degree. By having a degree it can open doors for job opportunities and many other things. Getting my degree is very important to me. College is also a time to grow up and become an adult. College is a time to learn to be independent, to learn to be responsible, to mature, and to learn real world responsibilities. One must become responsible while in college, because you don’t have parents to tell you what to do anymore. Your decisions affect you, and can affect the people around you. My parents have stressed to me since day one how important college is. They told me I wasn’t getting a free ticket into college, and that I had to work and become something of myself. I had to work not only on my academics, but also at my athletics. College is a wonderful opportunity to make lifelong friendships and memories that one can cherish forever. Being a part of a school is a great feeling and I can’t thank my parents enough for pushing me every step of the way to get me where I am today. It was a little ruff, but it was all worth it. College is a time for one to have fun, and to become a part of your school you attend. Get involved. Join something you haven’t done before, whether it is a sport, a faith based organization, or something involving your field of study. College is all about learning new things and experiencing things you never have before, so why not take advantage of it. College is a very important thing to me, and it is something everyone should take seriously because it is not free, and you can learn so much from attending college. College is a once in a lifetime thing, so I say make the best of it. I cannot wait to see what the rest of this year…
In college, I will learn to grow as an adult in the real world. This will help me learn how to manage my time and responsibilities as it is a necessity to lead a successful life. College will allow me to make my own choices, but this means I am responsible for myself in every aspect. The freedom that college provides will force me to become highly responsible for myself. This will help me become more…
Do you remember the transition between being a teenager and becoming an adult? Not wanting to grow up and face the world on your own? I remember as a child I was unsure of what my life would consist of without my parents. Transitioning between having a silver spoon in my mouth to not depending on them. When I was a child, I was so naïve of the world not knowing anything of what life consist of. My entire childhood revolved around the idea that my life would always be easy, full of games, and not one single problem would ever be big enough to affect my life. Little did I know, the life I imagined would not be the case, and I would have to acknowledge that the sugar coating I had around life would eventually dissolve. During my early years of high school, my only concern was to fornicate with as many girls as possible, but as I started to get older my responsibilities started to expand. The last year of high school was my turning point, having to decide what career to pursue, what college I’d have to attend, and how to pay for my tuition along with rent. After graduating high school reality struck me, the idea of a perfect…
Becoming an adult is a journey everyone should make at a certain moment in order to become the most they can be, to grow as an individual – mentaly and spiritually. Many people find it rather difficult and they are…
The time to become a successful adult is ticking down fast. The choices I make now will only affect me of what I want to accomplish in life, although I know it's going to be a long ride.…