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Internal And External Conflict
Nae
March 8, 2015
1st Period

Internal & External Conflict

Struggle, struggle, struggle! We live in a time of conflict, external and internal. External conflict

is a struggle between man and an outside force. Internal conflict is a struggle between man and self.

Dealing with each conflict can be difficult, but there’s always a way to deal with it nonetheless. Dealing

with internal conflict can be more difficult because you’re dealing with your own emotions and it can

sometimes lead to depression. Don’t push away your thoughts if you are dealing with internal conflict.

Pushing away your thoughts would make the situation more intense. Think about ways you can

manage it instead of pushing the thoughts away. It can help if you write the conflict down or don’t let

your mind fight itself. Dealing with external conflict is sometimes more simple. Effective listening is a

way to deal with external conflict. It’s important to listen and understand the other person’s point of

view. Effective listening doesn’t always work out which is why communication is key. It’s important to

clearly communicate your own feelings without putting the other person on the defensive.

The conflicts I have dealt with in my life are mostly internal. I try my best to keep my problems

within myself so that the conflict I’m dealing with doesn’t become another person’s problem. I

wouldn’t want an internal conflict to become an external conflict, so I manage my problems myself.

Growing up, I’ve always found it difficult to choose between one choice and the other. My most

common line I’ve used is “It doesn’t matter”. I have always been scared of choosing one thing and

having it become the wrong choice. Even up to now, I still use that line. I know it’s going to

become a problem. Real soon, I would have to stop using that line and start making choices myself.

The choices I have to choose from could be as little as which flavor of ice cream I want to as big as

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