Upon being introduced to Mr. Collins, Elizabeth finds him to be pompous and conceited because he speaks highly of himself to others which exposes his flaws that everyone around him seems to pick up on. Once Mr. Collins proposes to her, Elizabeth very kindly rejects him the best way she can because, she knows she will probably go insane living with him. This was a profound moment in the novel as, Elizabeth breaks the social barrier of every woman getting married to a man for his wealth. Mr. Collins was built as a character who not many will like however, knowing that he will inherit Mr. Bennett’s estate Charlotte Lucas, the opportunist that she is, accepts to marry him later in the novel. Her justification to Elizabeth was, “ You must be surprised, very much surprised,-so lately as Mr. Collins was wishing to marry you. But when you have had time to think it all over, I hope you will be satisfied with what I have done. I am not a romantic you know. I never was. I ask only a comfortable home” (114). Charlotte was twenty-seven years old and as described in the book “not pretty” so, she understood her circumstances and quickly pounced on the opportunity for a better life fore herself. Although Mr. Collins is not a desirable mate to her, Charlotte believes she will live a happy life with him because he has money. Many women at that time would be encouraged with …show more content…
She did not yield to the social standard that every women needs to find a man in order not just to be happy but more importantly, to live. Surprised by Charlotte’s acceptance to Mr. Collin’s proposal, Elizabeth knew she could never marry a man to whom she is not fond of at all. This comes up again when Mr. Darcy proposes to Elizabeth and she denies him too because, she can not stand the type of man that she heard Mr. Darcy is. An overlying presence of Mrs. Bennett does not help the cause Elizabeth is fighting for, as Mrs. Bennett desperately wants Elizabeth to see that she will not amount to anything and she needs a man who could provide for her. It is refreshing to see a character in this book that does not go along with everything that he/she is socially ordered to do. Elizabeth’s foundation of marriage is one others ought to follow however, it is understood that it was not the norm for that time so, Elizabeth was in a constant struggle in the novel to break out of this constant cycle. Ironically, the character that wants marriage to be about love gets ridiculed by others in the novel for asking too