Whenever a chore was forgotten or the tv remote was missing my sibling's first response was to blame me. Although some of the time I was in fact at fault, the very idea that I was always the first to be accused deeply upset me. So much so, that it began to shape my actions. I wanted to avoid any and all possible faults so I would no longer be considered a suspect. In other words, I wanted to seek perfection. After several days of that treacherous pursuit I realized I wasn't really living, I was simply monitoring every action to avoid all conflict. It was this realization that truly made me recognize the importance of being able to make mistakes. In situations in which my integrity was challenged I always learned from mistakes I had made, but I also learned a way to live without making the same mistake again. I believe making mistakes is an important part of growing up, but it is even more important to be able to learn how to move on with life and not repeat your mistakes. Being in an environment like Country Day that allows you to make mistakes but also have to take responsibility for them is the best possible way to learn, mature, and truly find where your morals
Whenever a chore was forgotten or the tv remote was missing my sibling's first response was to blame me. Although some of the time I was in fact at fault, the very idea that I was always the first to be accused deeply upset me. So much so, that it began to shape my actions. I wanted to avoid any and all possible faults so I would no longer be considered a suspect. In other words, I wanted to seek perfection. After several days of that treacherous pursuit I realized I wasn't really living, I was simply monitoring every action to avoid all conflict. It was this realization that truly made me recognize the importance of being able to make mistakes. In situations in which my integrity was challenged I always learned from mistakes I had made, but I also learned a way to live without making the same mistake again. I believe making mistakes is an important part of growing up, but it is even more important to be able to learn how to move on with life and not repeat your mistakes. Being in an environment like Country Day that allows you to make mistakes but also have to take responsibility for them is the best possible way to learn, mature, and truly find where your morals