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Highschool Sweethearts

It's happens all the time. High School Sweethearts go off to college. Usually, they go off to different colleges and that ends it pretty quickly. But what happens when they actually go to the same college and see each other every day? It may be more difficult to break it off, but as people grow and mature, especially at that age, they tend to go their separate ways. And that's OK. It's almost expected. There are occasions where they stay together and live happily ever after, but that's not the norm. For young couples in this situation, the important thing is not to focus so much on the ever after and enjoy the time spent together today, in the present. Don’t rush into marriage too quickly. There's no reason for it. You can always get married later if you choose to do so. Being together is not all about marriage, and it's not always meant to lead to marriage.Many people just see marriage as a safety net - a way to "lock in" that relationship permanently before it gets away. Signing a marriage contract won't make you closer. But getting married too soon in any relationship will usually lead to a lot of heartache and often an even more painful breakup. Open and honest communication is critical. One may worry about the other's happiness and make foolish decisions just to keep from hurting their best friend. Talk about your relationship frequently at this age because both of you are changing and growing so much all the time. What may have been a valid assumption about your relationship in January may no longer be true in June. It's not that the other person is fickle or confused. The ages between 18 and 27 are the years when a teenager becomes and adult and truly discovers who they are. They come out of their shell so to speak. In many cases, this means leaving behind old friends and lovers, including your High School Sweetheart. Not because they've done anything wrong... You're just growing and

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