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In the article “Oh Brother”, author Hara Estroff Marano points out various issues concerning sibling relationships. It highlights the views of marriage and family therapist Isadora Alman on sibling relationships and the different microenvironments that every child in the same family inhabits. The influence of siblings on each other is described, along with how conflict and hostility mark sibling relationship. The article also explains how the differential treatment by parents affects the durability of sibling environment and relationships. Hara says that ‘Siblings are born to compete for parental attention, and the strategies they use wind up encoded in personality. Small wonder it can take a lifetime to work out sibling relationships. There

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