Interpersonal paper: “Guess Who is Coming for Dinner”
Interpersonal communication is very fundamental in good communication. Communication is about sending and receiving messages in a specific sense. In a broader sense, it could be defined as the process of acting on information. (S. A. Beebe; S. J. Beebe; and Diana K. Ivy; 2013). This is a simplified definition and for this paper my focus will be on Listening and Responding skills. In the case of my selected movie, “Guess Who is Coming for Dinner” I will elaborate on Relational Listening Style. In the following paragraphs i will elaborate how in “Guess who is Coming for Dinner”, Father and son successfully apply a relational listening style to effectively communicate.
Listening and responding skills are very important for several reasons. Some researchers suggest that because listening is the first communication skill we learn (we respond to sounds even while in our mother’s womb). (S. A. Beebe; S. J. Beebe; and Diana K. Ivy; 2013). Rather than just focusing only on what to say, a person skilled in the art of conservation listens and picks up on interest and themes of others. (S. A. Beebe; S. J. Beebe; and Diana K. Ivy; 2013). In the movie “Guess Who is Coming for Dinner” it shows how the father and son listen to each other and respond accordingly. For a man who always like never puts a wrong foot, you are way out of line.You know how i worked my ass off to get you all the chances you got. (Guess Who is Coming to Dinner, 18-33 seconds) while the son is listening and he responds; you tell me what rights i have got and what rights i haven’t got and what i owe you. I owe you nothing, if you carried that bag a million miles, you did what you were supposed to do; because you brought me into this world.(Guess Who is Coming to Dinner, 1:25 - 1:41 minutes). While some of the words are harsh between father and son; both parties practice great listening and responding skill by allowing each...
References: Communications: Principles for a Life, Fifth Edition by Steven A. Beebe; S. J. Beebe; and Diana K. Ivy; 2013
“Guess who is coming to Dinner”
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