The death of a loved one can create a great toll on a family; it has a devastating effect on them. Everyone can experience grief in various different ways, however there are aspects of grief that can transform into a life threatening situation. This essay will discuss the various effect that each family member will encounter and what can occur if matters do not get resolved in a professional way. Death is an unwelcoming event but it is the nature of life, when losing a loved one people tend to go through lengthy phases: denial, anger, depression, and acceptance. Meanwhile, the depression phase of a normal grieving process and the phase of clinical depression can be tough to see the differences. This essay will be constructed on bereavement adjustment in the family system theory.
Losing someone in their family is what a lot of people fear the most, either if it’s a parent or child, people tend to fear their death more than their own. However, when losing an individual who plays a huge role in a person’s life people will normally go through stages of grief. Nevertheless, others may experience clinical depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts, and abnormal grieving. It is important to study this issue because it crucial to understand the signs when a death of a family member effects a person greatly enough, that they are in need of professional help. When analyzing a normal grieving process to an abnormal grieving process symptoms can and will be similar. Therefore, it is important to study this cause because people are on the verge of their own death and no one realizes. People suffering from depression due to a death can isolate themselves from society. They may be having suicidal thoughts, difficulty concentrating on everyday tasks, remembering details, decreased energy, insomnia, suicide attempts, and persistent pains, cramps, or digestive problems that do not ease even with treatment. When studying this devastating cause it puts others in a different perspective when someone they know is going through a great lost. People would realize signs and what know how to deal with a person suffering from the trauma.
Literature Review - The Effect of Death on the Family
The effect of death on the family can impact the family system in numerous ways. When a family experience a death of a loved one they go into great shock; however when a family mourns a death they go through five steps of grief. Furthermore, some family members get stuck in a phase and may have the chance of developing a life threatening mental illness.
Each member of the family experience each phases of grieving at a different time. Normally, a person would first experience denial and isolation. Denial has been misunderstood for many years, for a suffering individual they cannot fathom reality anymore. A person suffering a death of a loved one cannot seem to wrap their head around the fact that the person they dearly loved will not be physically with them anymore. (Kubler-Ross, Kessler, 8) They would assume the person who died will be okay if they just don’t think about him or her. However, as times continues and that person steps into reality he or she will begin to isolate themselves, they would take time off work or school and just stay home. Denial and isolation is known to be a defense mechanism that pauses the pain, nevertheless, it is only a temporary phase. Elisabeth Kubler Ross stated that, “Denial is a healthy way of dealing with the uncomfortable and painful situation, it functions as a buffer, it allows the patient to collect himself.” (Kubler-Ross 1981)
As denial and isolation finally come to an end anger begins to emerge. That person may have anger toward the loved one who passed but that anger can also be targeted toward the other family members, friends, strangers, co-workers or even inanimate objects. The anger that dwells within that person will thicken once they over think why...
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