This brings him to his mother, Gertrude, who has just finished talking to Polonius in her room when her son comes barging in. While Hamlet is still frustrated and brimming with vengeful anger and Claudius is stricken with guilt, Gertrude is in fact quite calm and seems completely un-phased. I think Hamlet is upset that his mother seems to take the death of his father …show more content…
The glass in this case being a figurative mirror. He speaks quite frankly to his mother by displaying his disgust and contempt for her actions. He rudely hurls insults at her, questioning her lust and her marriage vows, but doesn’t actually accuse her of adultery. Perhaps Hamlet wishes for his mother to understand for herself.
This is when the Ghost of Old Hamlet appears to chide Hamlet. The ghost had already asked that Hamlet not take his revenge out on his mother, and so he reminds him of what he is doing. “Do not forget. This visitation/Is but to whet thy almost blunted purpose./But look, amazement on thy mother sits./Oh step between her and her fighting soul” (3.4.110).
This reminds Hamlet of his purpose and he changes his tone with his mother, but more to one of passive contempt. “Forgive me this my virtue/For in fatness of these pursey times/Virtue itself of vice must pardon beg,/ Yea, curb and woo for leave to do him good” (3.4.153) He is frustrated with his mother, but he is convinced that he must let it go. I like to think at the end of the play, when his mother dies at the sip of poison meant for her son, she sees how her own flaws have hurt her son, and in her final act Hamlet forgives her. I don’t see this so much in the play, but in Branagh’s Hamlet I felt like it was played that way in