Try to imagine life in a society that refuses to allow individuals to act a certain way because how they want to behave is nit considered appropriate for their gender. Imagine people being around their peers, friends, and family, but not being able to be themselves. The fact of the matter is, one does not have to try to imagine this because this is the society everyone lives in. Society should accept people for who they are, not subject them to the traditional gender roles society has set up. Men and women have been treated differently for centuries, based on how people believe both genders should behave. In society today, people have the image of the perfect family consisting of the traditional man and woman, married with kids. The man works and the woman stay home. However, in modern generations women are moving up and working outside of home, and men sometimes, stays at home to look after the children. In modern generations people are accepting several sexual preferences or gender identifications that challenge traditional gender roles. In order to better represent society, and modern ideals, gender roles need to be changed to include acceptance or more than just traditional male and female roles. Many people challenge the expectation that the genitals one is born with should dictate almost all of ones physical, emotional, and psychological attributes. Many object to the strict gender roles that require women to be "feminine" and men to be "masculine." Some people are contesting the idea that ones gender identity is inextricably tied to our biological sex and that there are only two genders. What if being a woman isn’t about having a vagina? What if people don’t have to fit neatly into "masculine" or "feminine" boxes? For some people, how they see themselves and how others perceive them in the galaxy of masculinity, femininity, and the million points swirling between them cannot be constrained within the two simple categories of man and woman. In order for men and women to behave how they want to in society the traditional roles have to be changed so they will be accepted for it and not for what’s appropriate for there gender. According to Andrew Sullivan, author of “Why Gay Marriage is Good for Straight America,” he believes everyone should be treated equally regardless of their gender. Sullivan states, “Even political rights, like the right to vote, and nearly all other rights enumerated in the constitution, are secondary to the inalienable human right to “life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness” proclaimed in the Declaration of Independence; and to this category the right to home and marriage unquestionably belongs” (2). All men are created equally. Treating everyone equally regardless of his or her race or sexual orientation/preference is how human beings should be treated and society should follow that. Society today is changing rapidly; where men and women can behave more than just their gender roles are expected of them. Men and women could act and feel as they please with acceptance at the same time. By changing gender roles allows for more acceptances and making everyone’s life easier because they can behave as they please without being judged. Gender roles have been made up of stereotypical views of how men and women should be perceived as. But these gender roles don’t match the different personalities or behaviors men and women have in society today. So many people are used to following what society thinks is right and follows in the stereotypical of the gender roles society has displayed what a female or male is. If everyone changed their views on gender roles and just accepted people for who they are and not for their gender stereotype, everyone would be able to behave how they wanted too. In the essay “Our Bodies, Ourselves,” Kate Moore states how gender roles in society depict who you are as a person. Moore said, "Gender" is used in several ways. It may refer to gender roles or expression: the...
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