Gay Wedded Bliss
June 24, 2013
I chose the topic Gay Marriage, and I chose this one, because I have such a strong view and opinion on this topic. I wish that one day we could all live in a world where everyone is accepted, no matter who that love, that is my idea of a perfect world, that and no violence. Gay Marriage I know though will never be 100% accepted everywhere, and it does not have to be, everyone has the right to their own opinion and freedom of speech. I am completely for Gay Marriage, I do not see an issue at all, but I know others feel differently. I feel that the gay community should get the same treatment and same benefits we do with marriage.
My opinion on this issue has always been the same as long as I can remember. I have never had a problem with gays, nor will I ever; I just view them as people. I wish everyone could have the same views, I think this world would be a better and more comfortable place. I know gays are viewed as different, and outcasts but I know I would not want to feel that way. I follow the golden rule, treat others as you would want to be treated and do unto others and you would wish them to do to you.
I have never had anyone close in my family that was gay, but I have had friends that I knew were gay, and they were honestly no different than my straight friends. They treated me the same, treated their families and other friends the same, nothing different. I had this girl, who used to be one of my best friends, and she is a lesbian, and I seen how she was treated and looked at in our work place, and it just disgusted me that people can be like that. I know they have their opinions, but keep them to yourself. Why make the, feel uncomfortable? Some people were more rude than others.
I know that a lot of people follow the Bible and say it is wrong, and yes in the Bible it does say that, but I chose to have my own opinion and view, even though I am Christian, I am my own person. I know I am not the only one who does this either. So in this paper, I am not just expressing my views on Gay Marriage, but just to treat them as equals in general. I know that gay marriage is a HUGE controversial issue today. So many people in this world find homosexuals to be repulsive, offensive, disgusting, and wrong. They also do not understand, nor do they ever choose to want to understand their choices. People who are very religious and follow the Bible will tell you that God said homosexuality is wrong, and is a sin and they are right, the Bible does say that God did say it was wrong. But those people who read the Bible should also know and remember that God says do not judge.
People argue that if we allow people of the same sex to get married, that they will ruin the sanctity of marriage itself. Really? Do they honestly think that the gay community will ruin this? What about celebrity’s who have seventy two hour marriages, or married for seventy four days then turn around and get divorced? They haven’t ruined it yet? So how will gay couples ruin the sanctity of marriage any more than what celebrities have?
People also worry for the children that gay couples would raise. They are so concerned with what people will have to say about it. They are also concerned that those kids will grow up being bullied or picked on for having two mommies or two daddies’. What people should focus their attention on and their concerns is if those people are fit to be parents, will they provide for them, love them and protect them. Not worry about them being gay.
I have chosen to use the Utilitarian view on this topic. I feel that this side has an interesting argument. Developing this theory itself was also subjective to strong views about what was in the wrong in a culture or society. For Utilitarian’s their view is the greatest good for the greatest amount of people, it should promote the greatest amount of happiness for the greatest amount of people. So...
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