Friendship
Friends Should Never Hide Anything From Each Other
Would I tell everything to my friends? I really wonder. I respect and love my friends , especially my best friend but would I tell all my secret to him? Sure, on many occasion I would indulge in pouring out my miseries to him but – yes , there is still a but! We all need friends to be with , to laugh with and to share our dreams with. Few of us can live without friends. Our lives will surely be empty without them. It is so nice to able to ring a friend to chat with or to visit. Friends lend interest and give dimension to our lives. They make us feel good and help us to go through some dark days of our lives in a better frame. I really appreciate the role friends play. But there are some areas of our lives that are quiet private. If at some point we are tempted to talk about these areas to our friends , we might find that there is a stress on that friendship. It is only one special friend who might be able to deal with the burden of that secret sensitively, who might actually keep quiet and not spread it to the whole world. It is therefore a big chance we are taking when we choose to tell everything to our friends. Too many friends might not appreciate the value of what we have told them and might carelessly tell it to others. When there is a breach of trust , as in the case of a friend who decides to tell your secret to someone else you might feel betrayed. You will wonder if you should have told that secret in the first place. It is true that a problem shared is a problem halved. But on the other hand , one should take a good , objective look at the friends around us before we decide to tell them everything. It is said that one can only have one or two good friends in a lifetime. Perhaps we should bear that in mind when we are deciding who our real friends are. It will be quiet foolish to think that everyone who says ‘hello’ to us is our friend. It will also be quiet unwise to put all our friends on an
Would I tell everything to my friends? I really wonder. I respect and love my friends , especially my best friend but would I tell all my secret to him? Sure, on many occasion I would indulge in pouring out my miseries to him but – yes , there is still a but! We all need friends to be with , to laugh with and to share our dreams with. Few of us can live without friends. Our lives will surely be empty without them. It is so nice to able to ring a friend to chat with or to visit. Friends lend interest and give dimension to our lives. They make us feel good and help us to go through some dark days of our lives in a better frame. I really appreciate the role friends play. But there are some areas of our lives that are quiet private. If at some point we are tempted to talk about these areas to our friends , we might find that there is a stress on that friendship. It is only one special friend who might be able to deal with the burden of that secret sensitively, who might actually keep quiet and not spread it to the whole world. It is therefore a big chance we are taking when we choose to tell everything to our friends. Too many friends might not appreciate the value of what we have told them and might carelessly tell it to others. When there is a breach of trust , as in the case of a friend who decides to tell your secret to someone else you might feel betrayed. You will wonder if you should have told that secret in the first place. It is true that a problem shared is a problem halved. But on the other hand , one should take a good , objective look at the friends around us before we decide to tell them everything. It is said that one can only have one or two good friends in a lifetime. Perhaps we should bear that in mind when we are deciding who our real friends are. It will be quiet foolish to think that everyone who says ‘hello’ to us is our friend. It will also be quiet unwise to put all our friends on an