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Friend: High School and Friends
My Best Friend

My best friend betrayed me by talking about me behind my back to my other friends and I learned to be more careful when choosing my friends. My best of 6 years started saying horrible things about me to my other friends. She was someone I trusted and told everything to. After this whole friendship drama happened I have learned to be more careful and not so open when choosing my friends.
My best friend of 6 years betrayed me by talking about me behind my back to my other friends. We became friends in middle school and as years pass by we became very close. She was the sister I wish I had growing up. We would hang out everyday and we would tell each other things we did not tell anyone else. During senior year in high school I started to notice us drifting apart from each other. We did not talk and hang out everyday like we would use to. We would talk to each other once or twice a week and hang out maybe once a month. When we did hang out it was a little awkward because we would not talk to each other like we were best friends. Then all of a sudden we completely stopped talking to each other and that is when I noticed something is not right between the both of us. One day I was in class and my friend asked me “Are you and Jenny still friends because she has been saying a lot of horrible things about you and she also told me something that you told her only and told her not to tell anyone else”. I was so shocked to hear that; I couldn’t believe what was going on. I never in a million years thought I would have to confront her about saying horrible things about me to other people. The next day I confronted her and she admitted to all the horrible things she has said about me to other people. She even confronted to telling someone something I told her only and specifically told her not to tell anyone. We had a huge argument in school in front of everyone. We never resolved the problem; we both just started yelling and saying all this horrible things

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