Feelings of Regret
I know what it is like to be in a situation where you don't have a great home life, but you know there are other solutions to your situation then marriage. I can tell you that from experience. I turned 18 in May. Three months later I married the man I thought was my true love and the person I was going to spend my whole life with. One month after our second wedding anniversary, I separated from him and within six months we were divorced. Before I got married I believe that this would never happen to me, but it did and I became a teenage marriage statistic. If I could go back to being eighteen again and walk into the courthouse to get married without any of our family and friends there, I would not do it!
Knowing what I have gone though, REGRET comes to my mind. I lost three years of my life not as a regular teen. I was an immature adult trying to make it in an adult's world without a college education or any job experience. IF your teens truly believe that they are in love, then time will put it to the test. Once they are done with college or something besides high school only then should they consider marriage. One of key reasons for teenage marriage to end unhappily is definitely the extra strain and emotional overload caused by the naiveté of young people for the realities of marriage. The classical image of marriage is described as happy life in which two people unconditionally love each other through their entire life. Having married the young couple is to face the routine and weekdays the cohabitation
implies. The young people are finally granted the chance to see their partner and be together all the time. With time, however, the initial elation fades and they are left feeling unhappy. This false image of happiness is also ephemeral and the state of moral weariness is likely to have its effect. Then, the monotony can easily oust the fairy tale resulting in divorce, or even worse, the state of mutual insult in...
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