A great deal has been written and discussed on fragmented families. Family fragmentation is also known as divorced, separated, or broken families. There are many different things that are in great possibility to be tearing families apart. Excessive work schedules, social media, financial status, just to name a few. It has become common today to dismiss the orientation between families. Family orientation is simply the togetherness. To some families being together as a unit is very important, and others not so much. Being together can just be by doing little things such as; dinner at the table, playing games, and movies just to name a few of the possibilities.
What does being a family mean? Some say that being a family is just simply people that share the same genetics and takes care of one another. Some also may say blood doesn’t make a family, love does. There is an acrostic for the word family for one to go by that is; “F=Father, A=And, M=Mother, I=I, L=Love, Y=You.” This can simply turn around the meaning of family to some people. One can hear many excuses from young children, and young adults, that “my parents hate me”, “my parents do not love me”, or “my parents do not care about me”. Between all the distracting types of technology in today’s world, there has been one family on television that does not allow that to cause problems within them. Many of the people in today’s society have heard of the most widely viewed television show on A&E Network station, Duck Dynasty. This show has brought in over 11 million viewers across the United States of America. One may ask why has a show about hunting, camouflage and funny comments to one another, getting viewed more than shows that have been on for many years. Society today may have a longing for their family to be as united as the Robertson family. It could also be the last fifteen seconds in each and every episode that the family prays together as they are sitting around the table preparing to eat dinner. Many people may refer to their family as “The family that prays together, stays together.” Another reason that families are enjoying Duck Dynasty is the humoristic side of the family. They are always picking on each other, making fun of one another, but at the end of the day, no matter what, the family finds a way to put that all aside and come together as a “unit”. The social media networks cause a great deal of complications within the family. Research shows that “Over five million Facebook users are under the age of ten” (Scott). This is a sad statistic because children of that age in my eyes should not be allowed to use any social networking program that could result in harm. By the term “harm”, one can be referring to bullying, sexual assault, and harassment. It is a great possibility at this age they will give in to strangers, and could give away important information that should not be put out to the public. Bullying can lead to suicide. The statistics for suicide says, “Suicide is the third leading cause of death among young people, resulting in about 4,400 deaths per year” (BullyingStatistics). That should be a warning sign to all parents in today’s society that allows their young and upcoming teens be on social networking sites. Yes, this happens in public places, but can be just as harmful as the internet. “Overall, 19% of teens report they have been harassed or bullied online, and the incidence of online harassment is higher (23%) among 16 and 17 year-olds. Girls are more likely to be harassed or bullied than boys (21% vs. 17%)” (O.S.S).
Divorce is another problem that has excelled in the world throughout today, and will continue to rise. Research shows that up “40 to 50 percent of married couples in the United States, get divorced” (APA). Marriage can be a great deal for people, if they want to have a family. Yes, marriages have their share of rough patches, but working through those problems is what makes a marriage grow...
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