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Family Bonds are important to have because without them people can feel alone. People may not get along with their families but a blood relative isn’t the only family someone can have. For example close friends who you have known for a very long time can be considered family and lots of times are. There are many people out there who have troubles getting along with blood relatives usually because they are so similar it makes them different and causes them to argue. In The Secret Life of Bees Lily Owens doesn’t get along with her Father T.Ray not because they are similar but because Lily is exactly like her mother. T.Ray takes things out on Lily because he lost his wife and his daughter is so similar it kills him inside to see her

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