Evolutionary Paradigm Personal

The evolutionary paradigm covers different theories of evolution. Some theories can be applied to modern times and others may seem a little outdated or more relevant to the animal kingdom rather than to humans. I believe that individuals are unique, some theories may apply to individuals in different ways, and other theories may not apply at all. It all depends on the individual. Darwin’s theory of evolution covers different ideas or theories explaining human behavior. One belief of Darwin’s that I feel applies to all organisms is the “struggle for existence”. In the present time, resources are becoming scarce. They are either being exhausted or are depleting due to pollution. As humans we are doing our best to protect and preserve our resources, but there is only so much we can do. Especially with our population constantly growing. For humans and all other living organisms there are certain traits that are important and necessary for survival. These include adaptation, basic instincts, and the ability to recognize and meet basic needs. These traits are not only important in nature but are also important for survival in today’s society. Another belief of Darwin’s that I agree with is his theory of “sexual selection”. Sexual selection results from the competition among members of the same species for mates. This I believe to be true for all species, and sexes male or female. In humans, both males and females seek mates with certain physical and behavioral characteristics, beliefs, morals, and goals. I believe every one has the right to be selective therefore; you should always do your best to display your best characteristics if you want to attract the perfect mate. For me, I find myself attracted to the physical characteristics of a female then equally as important she has to have the right personality. Those two characteristics would be the first things I look for in a mate. Other characteristics such as beliefs, morals, and goals I would need time to feel the person out and judge for myself. Some people say they may believe in certain things, and have certain goals. What they say, and the behavior that they display towards these things may not meet your standards. Darwin’s belief of “survival of the fittest” is another theory that I believe to be true for all species. I would define survival of the fittest as, the strong survive and succeed, while others are left struggling or do not survive at all. This can relate to our current society, in our economic structure or social class. Our economic structure or social class can be compared to the food chain in the animal kingdom. With the highly skilled and higher educated dominating the job market. While the under educated, less skilled, or people with no skills at all live off the government or leach off of their families. In my case, I’m a little bit older than the average college student, but I am still doing my best to better prepare myself for a successful life. I would say that the term survival of the fittest motivates me to do my best at preparing myself for survival in today’s world. The theory of “natural selection” (Buss) states that organisms that possess adaptive traits will have a better chance at survival. I agree and disagree with this theory. In many situations this theory will prove to be true, and in other situations the circumstances may not allow for survival. For humans in our current society natural selection is not necessary for survival. We do exist today because of natural selection, but we have also made it easy for the weak or people without this ability to survive as well. However, I do believe that natural selection and the ability to adapt to different environmental situations or settings is an important trait or characteristic to possess in order to be successful. I do see myself as possessing this ability, and have proven to have it with my track record of success with various jobs, and activities. Schmitt & Buss’s belief on long-term strategies for males attracting females could not have been any more on point with how I view this task. Growing up a male in search for a mate from my teenage years to present, I have either experienced or witnessed just about everything they mentioned in this reading. From what I have witnessed men who use these tactics such as bragging about athletic ability, success in sports, or exaggerate, or glorify their career potential usually lack something else or may be insecure with something else about themself. My advice to women is find yourself a man who is comfortable with who he is, that doesn’t need to use any strategies or feel the need to make himself up to be something he’s not. What I find humorous is one of the tactics mentioned as being highly effective, was actually one I was recently faced with. A girl I was dating kept in touch with her ex boyfriend and she would tell him things about us, and all he would do was say he does that because he has a girlfriend or he is probably married. So with this guy trying to brainwash the girl I was dating, gaining her trust was a difficult task. I did succeed but eventually this relationship failed for other reasons. Attracting a desirable female is very competitive and to most men it is one of the most important tasks that they will face in their lifetime. In today’s time, I see a woman’s needs as being different from what they use to be. Women for the most part are more independent and don’t feel they need a man in their life unless they want to start a family. So to me the main qualities a woman is looking for in a man other than being attracted to them is commitment and trust. Most men have a hard time with committing to a long-term relationship and a woman’s trust is hard to gain if you don’t display signs of being committed or may display other signs of not being trust worthy. For the most part from what I have seen the tactics mentioned do work in attracting a female, keeping the female is the real battle. From what I have see being married or in a relationship does not ensure you will have a mate tomorrow. With that said if you love her always let her know, and never let things go stale. In conclusion the evolutionary paradigm incorporates many ideas and theories that I find apply to myself and are useful today. The struggle for existence in my opinion will always be a factor in survival. Sexual selection I see as your sexual preference, just like buying car. You prefer a certain car because you like how it looks, handles and it has certain features that you like. Survival of the fittest, only the strong survive. Natural selection and survival of the fittest go hand in hand with each other both being traits that will give you a better chance at survival. Long-term strategies for males attracting females could not have been anymore on point with the reality of males seeking a female mate.