Essay On Strict Parenting Styles

Every child is raised by different types of parents that use different types of parenting styles. Some parents shield their children from the real world, while some parents are too careless about their children’s well being. Moreover, every parent has a different parenting style, but not all of them are efficient. Even though, every parent will say their way of raising their child is the best. For example, the overly strict parent would scowl upon the way the more lenient parent let’s their child stay out later. But both, the strict and lenient parent, may or may not realize their effect on the child’s development. The overly strict parent is holding their child back from experiencing the real world and not letting them make their own decisions. …show more content…
If a child is raised by more lenient parents, the child will always make poor decisions since no one will tell them it is wrong of them. Hanna Rosin, Author of Mother Inferior, thinks it is best for her children to roam free and not be dictated by overly strict parents. If a parent uses a balance between the two, then the child will know to make the right decision in any situation. In reality, a child just born would not know which decision is the best, but with the help of his or her parents, the child should eventually be able to make appropriate decisions for himself. At the same time, a parent must be patient and allow their child to make mistakes so they know what is the best outcome next time. A parent can help the child make decisions by suggesting their opinion to the child such as informing them of the school play auditions or football tryouts. A technique helpful to parents to raise marvelous decision makers is make their child feel trusted by them. Children want to know their parents trust them enough to make decisions in their life and not get everything decided for them. If a child feels as though their parent is proud of them, the child will want to continue making them proud by making smart