Emotionally Focused Couples Paper
March 2, 2015
Emotionally Focused Couples Paper
Introduction When people get married they look forward to having a marriage full of love, happiness, companionship, financial stability, intimacy, and having someone who will provide emotional support. But for some people that happiness goes out the door, when you married someone who has an unstable background it will cause problems. This is where couples therapy comes into play, it gives the couple a way to express their concerns about what is going on in their lives. This paper will focus on a video that is providing couples with therapy, and helping them to come to some kind of conclusion of what the clients need to do to become closer.
Emotionally Focused Couples Emotionally focused therapy is known as (EFT), it is a forum of therapy that is a structured psychotherapy that works with individuals, couples, and families. This forum of therapy focuses on a person’s inner emotional state and unwanted experiences that a person in. There is a video called Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, which is based on a couple Patty and Josh, who has been married for about a year now, Patty has been married before and that marriage was one that was full of a lot pain and ended in a divorce. Even though Patty is now married again she has found herself reliving those ole emotions from her past marriage, which is now causing problems in her marriage with Josh. Patty finds herself shutting down every time her and Josh get into an argument and this is causing Josh to feel unwanted, alone, and begin pushed out the relationship but Patty. Many married people in America go through problems and they have to seek out help to find the source of the problem. Most of the time it’s emotional and people do not know how to deal with the issues. According to (Johnson & Greensburg, 1998), Emotions provides an important basis for human behavior. Emotions amplify the effects of motives on behavior; they orient us towards/away from objects in our environment; they constitute a connection between us and our environment. Emotions are not self-centered nor are they independent of others. Emotions helps us to feel and when those emotions are off track it can affect us in many ways, that will cause us to shut down on how we are really feeling. In the video, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, in the video there a lot of body language happening by both the therapist and the couple involved in the session. It also shows how therapist and the couple is reacting to the questioning and answering the questions. Susan Johnson; which is the therapist performing the sessions, she shows the couple that she is interested in their problems and that she is really there for them. The therapist shows the couple her feelings through the way she is questioning, and responding to the couple and through her body language and how she is reflecting the couples feeling back towards them. In the video you also see that the couple is listening to each other and expressing their feelings with the support of the therapist. The couple realizes how much they want to work things out with one another and they are willing to work on their relationship to make it better. The process of information – giving is very important, because it allows for the interviewer to give clients the necessary information that would help them to achieve a pacific goal. In the video, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, Information-giving responses gives the interviewer a chance to give information out information based on the client’s needs. Information-giving according to (Lipthrott, LCWS (2013), Information-giving is giving to couples, to teach them tools to help make the unconscious aspects of their relationship conscious and to help couples address conflict at its roots...
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