Did you know that over 40,000 children have to go through cancer treatments a year? Out of those 40,000, 12% of children with cancer will not make it. When a child is diagnosed with cancer, it affects many people who care about them and changes how they feel towards this child. This relates to Steven Alper, a character in the novel Drums, Girls and Dangerous Pie, whose brother is diagnosed with leukemia. Throughout the novel, Steven’s feelings toward his brother, Jeffrey, change over the course of time that his brother has cancer. Jeffrey has to go through chemotherapy and is at CHOP at least once a week for his treatments. Steven’s mom is not home a lot because she is with Jeffrey and making sure he is okay, while his dad is working and worrying…
This is an interview with Dr. Paul Offit, who is a prominent advocate for the push to ensure that children receive vaccinations. He explains some of the reasons behind the anti-vaccine movement and then proceeds to offer his counter-arguements. It is worth noting that this is an opinionated source, of course, as Dr. Offit definitely argues for one side of the issue. However, he is also very open with his sources of information as is still a credible and trustworthy source despite his bias.…
John, Sally, and their daughter Mary came into therapy wanting to help deal with current issues relating to Mary’s depression and self-harm. They had discovered that Mary had been occasionally cutting herself as well as isolating herself in her room for long hours. Sally had recently been diagnosed with breast cancer, which was successfully operated on, and was in remission. From an object relations perspective much of the family’s relationship and way of dealing, or in this case not dealing with Sally’s cancer, was facilitating Mary’s depression. Sally’s cancer had been minimized due to its highly operable nature. Both John and Sally explained to Mary that it was unnecessary to talk about the cancer as her mother had been “cured” already, ignoring the intense feelings of loss, sadness, and anger by all the family members before the positive news. Although this pattern and unconscious rule in their family where issues of intense emotional content were not to be discussed, this highly traumatic event appeared to be the breaking point for Mary.…
Julia's introductory monologue can be used in a variety of ways. Here are a few to consider:…
For instance, when their daughter, Denise, who reads many academic medical texts, recommends them to give Wilder some medication and send him to bed, Jack and Babette ignore her idea and take the boy to the doctor’s office anyway. In the end, the doctor tells the couple that their daughter was right and that a simple aspirin would calm the boy down. Furthermore, when the physician asks Babette why she ignored her own daughter’s advice, she answered with, “She’s a child, not a doctor- that’s why” (DeLillo, 90). Although, Denise’s advice was rational and Wilder’s problem was simply something minor, Jack and Babette still need to hear the advice from someone with more experience in medicine and, most importantly, someone with more authority before they are able to trust their daughter’s…
Howells, R. and Lopez, T. (2008) ‘Better communication with children and parents’, Paediatrics and Child Health, 18(8), pp.381-385.…
Before starting any thinking about how you are going to tell your patient/parent there are a few valuable things that you must remember and these are all to do with being a good communicator.…
When the loved one of a child falls ill or even dies that are most likely to feel very upset, you can help comfort them by reassuring them that…
Some children may have to face very particular and personal transitions not necessarily shared or understood by all their peers. These include: family illness, parental mental health or disability.…
The nurse must focus on each of the relationships between the patient and his family and the relationship with their patient and their families. This is important for gathering information to fill in the gaps created between family members through lack of communication or strained relationship caused by the illness. In this scenario, the best way for the nurse to advocate for the patient would be to fully understand the patient’s reasoning behind wanting to know his full diagnosis and help him deliver that message to his family. Since the patient desires to please his family members, once the patient and his family are able to carry out an authentic conversation, the parents can negotiate with the patient on how much information he should know about his…
Connecting is one of the most important themes in establishing an effective nurse-patient relationship (Johnston & Smith, 2006). This connection with the patient gives them someone to talk to, someone to listen to them, someone that wants to know them as a person and someone that doesn’t avoid them. These things are often difficult for family and friends to do during the end of life stages because of their own grief and lack of knowledge of supportive measures. The author’s decision to return to school and become a nurse was the result of having a wonderful nurse that did just this. The author’s 8 year old niece was diagnosed with leukemia and only lived 6 months after the diagnosis. There was nothing that could have changed the final outcome of her niece but the connection that her nurse had with the family changed the way that they dealt with everything. This is something that the author will never forget and inspired her to “pass this forward”.…
Consistently for a few weeks last October, I was able to hear my parents talk about my mom’s multiple visits to the doctor. Every time I heard them talk, I listened carefully while I was doing homework in my bedroom. I thought something was wrong because of all those doctor visits. Finally, I heard the real news of why my mom was constantly visiting the doctor. My mom had developed breast cancer.…
The patient’s family tried to go on with their lives as if she wasn’t sick. Her husband would spend time filling in for events which she would have normally attended. Her daughter, as well, ran functions on her own instead of cancelling them.…
In several non-Western cultures, family members and community authorities may make decisions regarding medical care of an individual. Often, it may be inappropriate to discuss the diagnosis or prognosis with the patient.…
(2014) is the last major function of effective communication. Security is being form when the medical workers exhibit competency and educating the information using the techniques of therapeutic communication. When the nurses showed skills and knowledge beyond the obvious situation that their child was in, or when the physician showed knowledge about the child’s history of sickness, security and trust were built between the parents and the personnel. Markides (2011) notes that supporting the child’s parent…