Divorce In The Military
Service members of today’s military really have big shoes to fill with the Global War on Terrorism and families at home. Some service members have spent far more time in Iraq and /or Afghanistan than they have at home, which is one of the leading causes of divorce among many U.S. service members. Staying focused on the mission and juggling family matters is a tough task for service members. Infidelity is a hard thing to deal with on top of all the other issues service men and women as well as their spouses have to worry about. After the dreadful fall of the Twin Towers in 2001 the United States Military has started operations in support of Operation Iraqi and Enduring freedom in Iraq and Afghanistan. When these operations kicked off some members of our military spent up to 15 months away from home. While away from home these service members miss out on the opportunity to see their families grow i.e. children crawling and taking their first steps. Families left behind at home may not be facing the same dangers as their deployed service member, but they are left to face the roles and responsibilities the service member used to do at home. For instance wives now have to cook, look after the children and animals as well as maintain the yard and bills. As Minton stated in his article service members move among comrades in arms while the families left back home move among people with no concept of deployment stress. Felling trapped and alone with that stress many families break up which cause more stress on the situation and burden on any children in the immediate family. Before deploying the service member, spouse and children all should sit down and come up with a plan for the duration of the deployment. Balancing family and supporting the mission during deployment for some service members as well as family members is a tough task. According to Minton service members move among comrades in arms while the families,...
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