Discipline Grid Disruption Of Class

On the discipline grid it says disrespectful behavior in the 5th offense is 5 OSS days. On the discipline grid disruption of class in the 5th offense is 3 OSS days. We have been asked plenty of times in Mrs. Kayla Ingalls class to stop being disrespectful and disruptive, and we have not listened to her. We are walking all over her because she is new, plus, she is a fun and exciting teacher, but since she is new, we aren't treating her the way we should treat her. She has wrote us detentions but has gave us many chances to fix what we do wrong and doesn't hand out the detention slip.
She has gave us seating charts to hopefully stop all the talking, and that hasn't worked. She has waited for us to get quite and that takes us about 5 minutes.