MY DEFINITION OF SUCCESS
The definition of success varies from person to person, but it can be summed up with this: if you set a goal, and, through effort on your part, you accomplish what you set out to do, you are successful. One cannot determine success by how much money one has, nor by how many people one surrounds him/herself with, but by oneÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s happiness with where they stand in life.
I am mainly interested in two types of goals: short term goals and long term goals. Short term goals are goals that can be achieved soon after setting them. Examples of short term goals include: painting a picture, going to the movies with your friends, or, if you think really short term, feeding the dog. Examples of long term goals include: learning to speak a foreign language, retirement, and owning oneÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s own business. Without goals, we have no base to plan our lives around, therefore leading to failure.
The only way to be successful at attaining your goal is to have a plan. The way I learned to plan is to set a goal and work backwards from that goal to figure out what it is going to take to reach that goal. Say, for instance, your goal is to build a house. Building a house costs a lot of money and chances are you donÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t have that kind of money in the bank, so you take out a construction loan. Next, you would decide on the floor plans you want built. Then you need to hire a construction company to build it; upon hiring the construction company, you set up a general time line of the work. And voila! When the company is finished building, you have reached your goal.
One of my earliest long term goals was to graduate from high school; I am on the path to meet that goal. All that stands between me and my high school diploma are a few essays and a math course, with which I should be finished within a week. A high school diploma will get you further in life than a GED would, because getting a GED shows that you gave up on the reinforced learning methods of high school and took the easy way out. Soon, I can put Ã¢â‚¬Å“received my high school diplomaÃ¢â‚¬Â on my list of successes.
A second long term goal of mine is to be able to provide for my fiancÃƒÂ© and any children we may have. I have a good start to reaching this goal because I joined the Arkansas Army National Guard, which will pay me to go to college, pay for my college, and I get paid $2000 for every person I convince to join the Guard through GRAP (Guard Recruiting Assistant Program). Another step I have taken to reach this goal is to work with my dad, the owner of TCB Construction, on learning how to measure, write estimates for, and inspect roofing jobs. This will help me get the money I need to buy a house and provide for my family. By providing for my household, I would consider myself a great success as a spouse.
To further my career at TCB, I plan to go to college and get a degree in business management. With this degree and the hands on experience I have gained over the years by working with TCB during the summer, I will be able to manage the flow of money, the employees, and the other major aspects of running a company in the best interest of the business. By making sure the company is successful, I will have been successful in my career. And if at any time I decide to leave the company, I would have a job history that would get me a decent job elsewhere. Sometimes being successful calls for having a contingency plan. If you start out with a plan, and plan for the possibility of hiccups in those plans, you are a lot more likely to succeed than someone who has no plan.
Recently, I have taken an apprenticeship with TCB Construction. The job title that best illustrates what I am doing would be Ã¢â‚¬Å“sales representative.Ã¢â‚¬Â I go out with a salesman and learn how to measure the roof, bid and sell the job to the customer using both words, and competitive pricing. As I type this, we are on the way o Jersey, AR to measure a commercial roof...
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