Preview

Defining Tiger Parenting

Good Essays
Open Document
Open Document
782 Words
Grammar
Grammar
Plagiarism
Plagiarism
Writing
Writing
Score
Score
Defining Tiger Parenting
Defining Tiger Parenting in Chinese Americans
Simona Nissan
San José State University

Su Yeong Kim on the article Defining Tiger Parenting in Chinese Americans presents the results of the research about the existence of Tiger Mother in the Chinese Americans society. Amy Chua in her book Tiger Mother argues that her daughters' success derives from the fact that she had used “tiger mothering,” unlike the American parenting that focus of developing and improving children's self-esteem. However, the study found that this type of parenting is no common among the Chinese Americans society. Moreover, there is not relation between “tiger mothering” and superior academic preference. They found that the best development is among kids
…show more content…
The positive characters include warmth, inductive reasoning (generalizations), monitoring and democratic. On the other hand the negative characters include hostility (enmity), punitive, psychological control and shaming. Combining the whole eight characteristics creates four main types of parenting profiles: tiger, supportive, harsh, and easygoing. The obvious conclusion from the data is that the supportive parenting is the importance parenting type among the Chinese Americans, since supportive parenting prevents a negative developmental way in young Chinese American. In addition, Chinese American children experience less depressive symptoms (Kim and Ge 2000). Finally, the involvement of the father in the process can cause or increase the optimal development of the Chinese American children.
The research found two main intricacies in the context of Tiger Parenting. First one is the involvement of the parent process. Chua [2011] emphasizes that tiger parenting is the mother’s job; however, the research finds that tiger fathers becomes involve in the Chinese Americans families when the children become more busy with commitments outside the home as independent adults. Second complexity is that existing a number of other aspects beyond the eight dimensions that should be considered such as, the parents set goals or

You May Also Find These Documents Helpful

  • Satisfactory Essays

    After reading Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior by Amy Chua, I learned three key differences between Chinese and Western “mothering.” First, Western parents are focused on the physiological behavior of academics and self-esteem issues with their children while Chinese parents are not. Second, Western parents view their children to try their best and do not need to repay the parents, in contrast Chinese parents view their children to be permanently in debt to them. Last, Chinese parents believe that they know what is best for their children. Western parents will not over-ride their children and allow their children do what it is they desire.…

    • 610 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Good Essays

    In the book written by Amy Chua titled Battle Hyman of the Tiger the author compares the different cultural upbringings between “tiger mother” a Chinese American women and her spouse, Jed a man from a liberal Jewish background. The Chinese mother was raised by what Westerners would considered to be strict, in regards to parenting. As a child her parents gave her very strict rules, curfew, academics, extracurricular activities were all under her parent’s complete dictation. “The tiger mother” uses these rules as well to prepare her children for success. Childhood to her, was remembered as an area in life where as a parent they would train their children to be strong, confident and successful. Jed, the father…

    • 1451 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Better Essays

    Hannah Rosin Analysis

    • 1084 Words
    • 5 Pages

    However, the two approaches present a sharp contrast to each other. Amy Chua believes that success, perfection and being “the best” are of paramount importance, and will ultimately build a child’s self-esteem (Chua, 2011). Hannah Rosin is critical of the harshness of the Chinese template and argues for a gentler approach, one that takes the natural interests and talent of the child into account (Rosin, 2011). Rosin notes that the idea of enjoyment or happiness is strikingly absent from Chua’s parenting style; in turn, Chua observes that many Western parents are disappointed with the choices that their children make in their lives (Rosin, 2011; Chua, 2011). It can be argued that both the Eastern approach and Western approach have a great deal to offer each other; a wise parent knows how to walk a middle…

    • 1084 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Better Essays
  • Good Essays

    Once one becomes part of the parents only club, one is expected to make the right decisions for one's child. Which is, giving one's child a chance at every possibility to obtain success. But, how much of it is truly for one's child and how much is for one's own personal fulfillment? In the short story by Amy Tran ‘Two kinds” we see into the life of a young Chinese American and her mother, who wishes for nothing less than her daughter to be a protege. As readers learn about how Mother goes about with this desire, one comes to question her motives. Does she want this because she believes this is truly what her daughter needs or, does she want this for herself, in order to fill a void left by her past? This selfish desire causes a clash between mother and daughter.…

    • 792 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Amy Chua Essay

    • 827 Words
    • 4 Pages

    “What Chinese parents understand is that nothing is fun until you’re good at it.”(411) The Statement from “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior,” by Amy Chua, is an opinionated article on western and Chinese parenting. In her article, Amy Chua compares the way Chinese parents raise their children and the way American parents raise their children. She shows both the positives and negatives on both sides of parenting. Amy Chua uses Logos, credibility, and Compare and contrast in her passage. Each rhetorical strategy is supposed to help the reader have a clear outlook on the two parenting styles and which parenting style is preferred. The authors give stable credibility, but lacks of an objective in her comparing and contrasting, and lacks reliable…

    • 827 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    east vs. west parenting

    • 631 Words
    • 2 Pages

    The parenting styles and techniques of Amy Chua verses that of Hanna Rosin describes the East v West idea that parenting should be restrictive/strict discipline v free willed/encouragement. In that Ms. Rosin takes up the notion that in America the free will of the child is within the encouragement of a child’s choice be it, playtime, sports, and arts to make a successful student and is the end productive adult. Ms. Chua takes up the notion that in Chinese parenting the strict adherence to discipline and long hours of practice makes a child prepared for society and a successful adult in society.…

    • 631 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    New Yorker Elizabeth Kalbert focuses on a story on America’s Top Parent. Amy Chua a writer on “The Roar of the Tiger mom,” Kalbert tells how their are two kinds of mothers. Amy Chua for instance is a Chinese women who keeps her children from the out side world Chua, and her daughters of Chinese immigrants. Her daughters and her self practice their work every day and is a law school professor, who also includes only the best for her children. Although western mothers think they are being strict when their children were to practice their work.…

    • 180 Words
    • 1 Page
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Good Essays

    In the “Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother” Chua compares her parenting methods to those of Western parents. Children whether of Eastern or Western descent has a choice of what they want to make of themselves. However, the kids, much like their parents tend to fall into different stereotypical categories. For example Chua states, “A lot of people wonder how Chinese parents raise such stereotypically successful kids” (305). The outcome of the child usually comes down to the upbringing and influencing done by the parents. Another example Chua states in “Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother” states, “For example, if a child comes home with an A-minus on a test, a Western parent will most likely praise the child. The Chinese mother will gasp in horror and ask what went wrong” (307). The example explains some of the differences in kid stereotypes of eastern and western cultures. However this is not to be confused with racial discrimination as Chua explains, “I’m using the term ‘Chinese Mother’ loosely. I know some Korean, Indian, Jamaican, Irish. and Ghanaian parents who qualify too” (305). Continuing on that statement, Chua also clarifies “I’m also using the term ‘Western parents’ loosely. Western parents come in all varieties”…

    • 635 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    According to Chua, Chinese mothers approach their children in a direct and a strict way which enables their children to excel in their eyes. She points out that Chinese mothers spend ten times as much time with their children working on academic activities. In contrast, the western mother invests more time with their children in sports activities and developing social skills. The author believes that there are three differences that makes the Chinese mother more superior than western mother. First, Chinese parents don’t focus on their kid's attention on inner self as western parents do.…

    • 654 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Powerful Essays

    Parenting Style Analysis

    • 2319 Words
    • 10 Pages

    The most well-known example of such occurrence of this is the parenting style dubbed as ‘tiger moms’. This type of parenting is defined as an authoritarian. The parents have extremely high expectations for their children and provided little warmth or emotional support to their children (Boyd & Bee, 2012, p.320-329). In American samples, children who grew up with parents practicing an authoritarian parenting style were seen to be much more anxious, less confidence and underperformed in school (Boyd & Bee, 2012, p.320-329). However, the same parenting style is practiced by Chinese parents, often described as controlling, has shown to result in academically successful children (Chao, 1994). This inherent difference suggests that the concepts of authoritative and authoritarian are ethnocentric and that other confounding factors may be in play when considering the success of a parenting…

    • 2319 Words
    • 10 Pages
    Powerful Essays
  • Good Essays

    As a young adult raised in a Chinese family, my experiences with my parents are drastically different compared to parenting style Amy Chua suggests. In her essay "Why Chinese Mothers aresuperior" Chua explains that being strict can help her children become "successful", has a positive impact for them, and is a better method for raising a child. Chua believes that Western parents are too free with compliments, and easily let a child give up on tasks they finds difficult; she furthermore states that her unyielding standards are good for her children because she knows her children can meet the standards. Chua's essay fails to define a “successful” child and uses ineffective examples to show superiority over the Western parents.…

    • 847 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Powerful Essays

    Extreme Parenting

    • 3206 Words
    • 13 Pages

    Extreme parenting is considered effective by some but, ineffective and bordering on abusive by others. Extreme parents, also known as “Tiger” parents, go beyond normal extremes to compel their children to succeed. They do this by forcing their children to participate and excel in a certain activity. They often use harsh punishment for failure, but believe that their actions better their children. They are different from the “typical” parent because of how they define their child’s success and happiness. According to the article “Key Events in the History of Extreme Parenting” from Facts On File the release of Amy Chua's book Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother in January 2011 sparked a debate between people who see Amy Chau’s extreme parenting style as essential to help children reach their full potential and those who think it borders on child abuse. (Key Events) The subject of extreme parenting is a sensitive one in which many people have very strong and differing opinions.…

    • 3206 Words
    • 13 Pages
    Powerful Essays
  • Good Essays

    Korean American Parents

    • 1205 Words
    • 5 Pages

    This article examines aspects of the relationship between Korean American parents and their children. The study aimed to measure the association between the perceived parental levels of acceptance and rejection with levels of parental control, ranging from permissive to strict. Self-report data was collected from the individual members of 106 Korean American families for the purpose of this study. The children answered questions about their parents while the parents reported about themselves. The majority of both groups reported the parents as being affectionate while having a control level of moderate to firm. Both children and mothers reported that there was a positive correlation between maternal levels of control and perceived rejection…

    • 1205 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Powerful Essays

    In recent years it has been said that China is far surpassing the United States in terms of education. This raises the problem of Americans falling behind in global competitiveness which encompasses in all aspects of a society’s success. There is said to be a major correlation between parenting styles and the overall country’s competiveness considering education, values, and work ethic is implemented in the home through parenting styles before a child ever reaches institutionalized schooling. Many persons believe American parenting lacks discipline and structure and believe Americans should adapt a more Chinese style parenting, while many other persons believe that Americans should stay with their parenting style to increase global competitiveness. The problem of Americans falling global competiveness can be addressed in several ways however looking specifically at parenting styles affects, it boils down to a solution either of keeping the same parenting style, or transferring to a more Chinese parenting style.…

    • 1753 Words
    • 8 Pages
    Powerful Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    tiger moms summary

    • 319 Words
    • 2 Pages

    After going reviewing this piece, "Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior" I have come to a conclusion; of complete admiration towards these "tiger moms" they truly have a unique way of raising their child. A child that succeeds in each level of academic education. Children raised this seem to sound, and extremely successful in life, and ultimately that is what a parent wants for their child.…

    • 319 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Satisfactory Essays