Because of Rowdy’s defeatist attitude instead of accepting the invitation to go to a better school he cursed Arnold. Rowdy was raised by a drunken father that physically and mentally abused him fostering a defeatist attitude in Rowdy. Defeatism blurs one’s vision and covers one’s ears. A person loses the ability to see the situation in an objective way. Making things worse, it also makes it hard for one to listen to good advice. Even if the advice is sound, one won’t be able to appreciate it, much less act on it. As a result, one misses many chances to grow, reach goals, or turn things around. “When faced with defeatist thoughts, immediately ask yourself, So what if I fail. Tell yourself that failures do not deserve your attention.” (Article.vbml.net pg. 2) “Pay attention to your thoughts. You may not be able to control all if the many thoughts constantly running through your mind, but you can control which ones you choose to hold on to.” (Edmunds USA
Because of Rowdy’s defeatist attitude instead of accepting the invitation to go to a better school he cursed Arnold. Rowdy was raised by a drunken father that physically and mentally abused him fostering a defeatist attitude in Rowdy. Defeatism blurs one’s vision and covers one’s ears. A person loses the ability to see the situation in an objective way. Making things worse, it also makes it hard for one to listen to good advice. Even if the advice is sound, one won’t be able to appreciate it, much less act on it. As a result, one misses many chances to grow, reach goals, or turn things around. “When faced with defeatist thoughts, immediately ask yourself, So what if I fail. Tell yourself that failures do not deserve your attention.” (Article.vbml.net pg. 2) “Pay attention to your thoughts. You may not be able to control all if the many thoughts constantly running through your mind, but you can control which ones you choose to hold on to.” (Edmunds USA