Tolman and Dr. Fine women are not allowed to explore and experiment with their sexual desires because of their fear of having an unwanted pregnancy, contract an STD and to be labeled as easy and prude. Dr. Tolman proclaims that within society women are the sexual desires of boys and have no desires of their own, they are pressured to keep this pure and clean image to avoid society’s and male’s judgmental gazes. Women fear that if they express their sexual desires, they can become potential rape/sexual assault victims. In her book Dilemmas of Desire, Dr. Tolman tackles the lack of representation women have when it comes to sex and their desires. Dr. Tolman addresses the issue that our society gives women two options, either to make“a choice between their sexual feelings and their safety” (p. 44), therefore making it difficult for women to recognize and enjoy their sexual
Tolman and Dr. Fine women are not allowed to explore and experiment with their sexual desires because of their fear of having an unwanted pregnancy, contract an STD and to be labeled as easy and prude. Dr. Tolman proclaims that within society women are the sexual desires of boys and have no desires of their own, they are pressured to keep this pure and clean image to avoid society’s and male’s judgmental gazes. Women fear that if they express their sexual desires, they can become potential rape/sexual assault victims. In her book Dilemmas of Desire, Dr. Tolman tackles the lack of representation women have when it comes to sex and their desires. Dr. Tolman addresses the issue that our society gives women two options, either to make“a choice between their sexual feelings and their safety” (p. 44), therefore making it difficult for women to recognize and enjoy their sexual