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Andreia Monteiro P-3 9/24/13
What was your most unpleasant experience in your life ?

One time I had the most unpleasant experience that someone can ever have, It is amazing how many things we take for granted. We make plans for the day, and don't think twice about how those plans can change in the blink of an eye. I never thought much about it myself, until I was faced with the devastating, and undeniable truth of my uncle death. The event that occurred which started my growth into adulthood. It was June 24, 2012 and it was about four thirty in the afternoon….I can remember so clearly the day that I received the news of his death, my uncle’s girlfriend gave me the news that changed my life. It was the saddest news that I had ever got in my entire life. The news was that my uncle Sandro had gotten into a motorcycle accident and it was pretty bad on he’s way to PEDRA DE LUME, back in my country Cabo Verde, and he did not survive the accident when they brought him to the hospital, he already had passed away. When they told me what happened it was like my world crushed because he meant a lot to me, Sandro was one of my closest uncle and I have five other uncles. When my mom gave birth to me she was sixteen and she had to immigrate to Unites states of America, I end up growing up with my grandparents, at the same house that my uncle lived. He was more than my uncle he was like a father to me I could always count on him for anything when I needed some advices id go to him so he could help me, he helped my

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