Dating Vs Traditional Dating Research
There are two main methods that involve dating and meeting a potential mate, and they are the traditional and contemporary date approaches. As far as which method is better for dating, especially concerning the fact that both methods have their positive and negatives will be discussed. At the end of the discussion I will share which method of dating I feel is best suitable for developing healthy and equitable relationships. The traditional date was popular up until the 1970s and is still used in today’s dating methods. There were culturally defined “gender scripts” that were known and followed by potential couples when approaching the date. The man taking control in regards to paying for the data, providing transportation and deciding
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goodnight kiss, etc.). However, the man must realize why he took her on a date in the first place. If the purpose of the date were to get to know the person better and discover interest and …show more content…
The outings are far more casual and can range from simply hanging out to ‘hooking up’. What seems to be a common theme is the contemporary approach is that women can have more influence in the relationship if they so choose. Positive aspects of this modern method include more causal relationships that enable you to experience the person in many different settings. Others are if you can’t afford to take a girl out on dates all of the time it is more socially acceptable to “split the bill,” and another is that there is less pressure in the relationship which allows more time to meet other people or focus on main priorities. Negative aspects are that a true foundation never may fully be built resulting in never knowing where a relationship may stand which can lead to more complications in the future. Another negative trait may involve casual sexual activities with “friends with benefits” once one partner starts to develop feelings toward the other but there is no reciprocation. Though, it does need to be noted that contemporary dating doesn’t mean that all relationships stay casual, and that many relationships do form from this
goodnight kiss, etc.). However, the man must realize why he took her on a date in the first place. If the purpose of the date were to get to know the person better and discover interest and …show more content…
The outings are far more casual and can range from simply hanging out to ‘hooking up’. What seems to be a common theme is the contemporary approach is that women can have more influence in the relationship if they so choose. Positive aspects of this modern method include more causal relationships that enable you to experience the person in many different settings. Others are if you can’t afford to take a girl out on dates all of the time it is more socially acceptable to “split the bill,” and another is that there is less pressure in the relationship which allows more time to meet other people or focus on main priorities. Negative aspects are that a true foundation never may fully be built resulting in never knowing where a relationship may stand which can lead to more complications in the future. Another negative trait may involve casual sexual activities with “friends with benefits” once one partner starts to develop feelings toward the other but there is no reciprocation. Though, it does need to be noted that contemporary dating doesn’t mean that all relationships stay casual, and that many relationships do form from this