Conformity With Social Norms

1) Do you think conformity with norms in general is a good or bad thing? Why?
Conformity can come in useful when we are in unfamiliar surroundings or activities. Everyone has done it in some way or another throughout their life and it really can come in handy with unknown situations. I would say it can be good and bad, if there is a social norm that is meant to keep order and peace, then conforming to this standard can be considered good. However when the norm is intentionally used to harm or disrupt the peace it is imperative that you don’t conform to such actions. There are times where you mustn’t conform to being a bystander, and instead advocate for change and demand for fair and just treatment to all. It all essentially depends on the
Holding the door for someone who is close behind you. Opening a door for someone, for the person behind you, or gesturing another to pass through first, is simple act of kindness. I would say that it is a positive social norm especially here on campus it’s easy to become accustomed to others holding the door for you and reciprocating the act, it demonstrates a standard of polite behavior and mutual courtesy as we help on another.

5. Lastly, one social norm that I think should be more emphasized is to watch where you're going when you're walking. Don't stop suddenly or stand in the middle of a busy sidewalk (e.g. to check your phone). This one is seemingly relevant in today’s society as it helps create a good flow of traffic amongst pedestrians and allows us to get to where we need to be faster. It is a positive norm as it encourages us to be aware of what’s happening around us to avoid harmful injuries, and maintain public order.

3) List 5 social norms that you think are negative and for each explain why you think it is negative. If a norm is specific to some group or context, make sure to
When in an elevator one should face the front, leave a generous amount of space between themselves and other riders, and refrain from conversing with the other person in the elevator. This type of behavior is negative because it reinforces antisocial behavior, which can often make elevator rides awkward and uncomfortable, instead we should engage in small talk and try and build relationships with others especially if it’s within a building in which you both live.
5. The idea that we shouldn’t "over share" problems we are going through, unless talking to a close friend or a shrink. This norm suggests bottling up or emotions or feelings and not asking for help or advice sooner. I believe this is a negative norm because there is only so much we can bottle up and bear alone, instead we should advocate for people to speak up and share their feelings.
4) In general, what do you think determines whether a social norm is good or bad?
I think the determining factor of whether a norm is overly good or bad is the intended affect that it is supposed to have on society. If it encourages isolationism, exclusion, or degrading of others than it is bad. However if it promotes the general welfare of society, and benefits people to adapt these norms then it is innately