Letter of Advice
Dear Ashley and Josh,
Congrats on your new engagement! I know from experience that marriage has many trials and both parties have to be willing to dedicate and put their all into it once you join as one. The most important thing that makes a marriage or any other relationship successful is communication. There are going to be disagreements but knowing how to talk everything out and compromise when needed are also ways to have a long healthy life together. Practice needs to start now instead of waiting until you both say “I Do.” Over the past five weeks, I have been studying interpersonal communication and would like to offer some advice that will be very useful to you both in this new journey.
To begin, communication originates from the Latin word communico which means "to join or unite," "to connect," "to participate in" or "to share with all." The primary intention of interactions with other people is to meet our needs and to have influence on the world. Kathy Sole, author of “Making Connections: Understanding Interpersonal Communication”, defines communication as a process by which we share ideas or information with other people. Therefore, it is essential to be able to distinguish between the principles and misconceptions in effective interpersonal communication. Automatically, we think of communication as talk, but it is much broader than just speech. Facial expressions, hand gestures, body movements, and body positions are also types of communication. Communication has a meaningful purpose. We always communicate for a reason which may be to meet personal needs, to learn about ourselves, other people, and the world, or to build and maintain relationships with others. Communication is a complex process, and we will never know everything there is to know about ourselves and our relationships with others. However, the more we do understand, the better we can relate to others in our...
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