Causes of Divorce
Causes of Divorce
Whatever happened to that meaningful exchange of words, “till death do us part," said by the bride and groom to each other on their wedding day? Many couples agree to remain with their partner until death when they say the words “I do”, but many marriages will end with a divorce instead of death. Although, some problems in a marriage can be resolved through many ways including counseling sometimes the only solution is by parting ways. While no couple wishes for a divorce there are some causes for getting a divorce. Primary causes of divorce can include lack of communication, financial problems, cheating, and women changing roles.
To begin with one significant cause that leads to a divorce is lack of communication. Many couples stop communicating with each other because each one is busy doing their own things in life whether it is work, hobbies, raising children, activities, among other things. A lot of couples have different job schedules not allowing them to see each other most of the day. When they finally get to see each other at night and they are both tired and they just go to sleep. Since the time that they live together is not enough, the couples find it hard to find time to communicate with each other because they have a busy life and lack energy. Also, many marriages have poor communication because they do not know how to express their feelings to their partner. Marriage cannot be a successful relationship if either one does not discuss about his/her emotions or issues, and expects their partner to guess what the whole problem is about. An example, when a wife is angry about something and her husband asks her what’s wrong, but all she says “it’s nothing” instead of letting her husband know what is going on so that way they can both find the solution to her problem. Most couples just do actions instead of using words. Married couples think that they do not need
Whatever happened to that meaningful exchange of words, “till death do us part," said by the bride and groom to each other on their wedding day? Many couples agree to remain with their partner until death when they say the words “I do”, but many marriages will end with a divorce instead of death. Although, some problems in a marriage can be resolved through many ways including counseling sometimes the only solution is by parting ways. While no couple wishes for a divorce there are some causes for getting a divorce. Primary causes of divorce can include lack of communication, financial problems, cheating, and women changing roles.
To begin with one significant cause that leads to a divorce is lack of communication. Many couples stop communicating with each other because each one is busy doing their own things in life whether it is work, hobbies, raising children, activities, among other things. A lot of couples have different job schedules not allowing them to see each other most of the day. When they finally get to see each other at night and they are both tired and they just go to sleep. Since the time that they live together is not enough, the couples find it hard to find time to communicate with each other because they have a busy life and lack energy. Also, many marriages have poor communication because they do not know how to express their feelings to their partner. Marriage cannot be a successful relationship if either one does not discuss about his/her emotions or issues, and expects their partner to guess what the whole problem is about. An example, when a wife is angry about something and her husband asks her what’s wrong, but all she says “it’s nothing” instead of letting her husband know what is going on so that way they can both find the solution to her problem. Most couples just do actions instead of using words. Married couples think that they do not need