There has been a progression of bullying happening as many may have noticed, in order to be able to get the bullying to stop or to even calm down someone needs to step up and have a talk, or needs to discipline the bullies. Walking down hallways at school, people say mean words, they do not think of other people's feelings as they say the cruel words coming out of their mouths. Mostly, the reasons being why children, and young adults are usually bullying someone may be because they were not disciplined enough as a child, their parents may have not been around to do so, or they may have a rough life at home. The reasoning trying to be stated is the bullying comes from selfish people. A person can tell if somebody else is selfish or not because selfish people tend to block out what others are feeling around them, how their days went, and/or what is going on in their lives. Selfish people do not care about anyone else except for themselves. A selfish person could see somebody with nothing to their name and still not help them because they do not want to do anything for anybody else. Everyone may have a friend or a family member who they may think is a selfish person, as many people may know a person that is selfish do not be afraid to stand up to them and knock them down and tell them what they are doing is wrong. Selfish people are everywhere in todayś society and they do not care if…
Bullying can happen because of issues at home or lack of self-confidence. Many companies support the idea of confidence, but with bullying in the way, that message will not spread. Some adults believe that bullying is just “Kids being kids” but people around the world need to realize that this worldwide problem has gone way too far.Some people think that ignoring the problem will make it stop and people will forget about it. If we forget about it then bullies will not stop because if teacher let it go then the bully will get away with being mean. It is too big of a deal to just “Let it go”!…
Bullying happens when they are not around either of them people and also some kids are too scared to tell their parents because they don’t know how they will act nor do they know if they will stop getting bullied or if it would happen more. The victims of such actions need to understand that they can get out of that situation and also that they can sometimes do it by themselves because being bullied can mess a child up in the long run(Jacobs and McMahon np). The child can become antisocial or become very insecure about themselves, which no child deserves to go through all their lives. Not only do the people that get bullied become very distressed but also the people who witness the action happening can become very uncomfortable and stressed. This isn’t fair to the witnesses either because it can mess with their physical, mental, psychological and social well beings, along with the victim’s well being too. These problems with the victims and witnesses well beings can have a long term effect which isn’t good for either of them (Jacobs and McMahon np). Some of these situations lead to physical threats which are the one of the most common types of bullying. Also, most…
All three of these emotions will cause stress. Getting bullied by someone shows they are not wanted by them. When finding oneself in a position where they are being pressured, or intimidated over and over again, they come to feel and believe there is nothing anyone can do to change the situation. Therefore, it lowers confidence (self-esteem). When their confidence is lowered it is challenging to cope through stress. These emotions can cause the victims grades to drop, attitude changes and an increase of anxiety. Bullies do not only physically and mentally harm victims, but they can emotionally harm them as well. That why counselors are much needed for a certain type of…
First, I would like to explain the aspects and outcomes of bullying and being bullied. A lot people think being bullied is having someone threaten to take your lunch money or beating you up after school, that isn’t always the case. In some situations, bullying can go to the extreme. Bullying can take a person to the point of no return and can lead some of the calmest people into dangerous acts like self-harm and…
According to, “Tales of bullying,” The reason is that bullies are the ones hurting people almost every day. They always push, hit, kick, call names, or even curse. This could affect the life of the kid getting bullied. It could start an argument which would lead to a fight then maybe suspension from school. This a bad issue around school. Try to stop this.…
There are many risk factors to bulling. The warning signs of bulling are depression, attempt of suicide or suicide. It can have many effects on people mentally and physically. Some people bully because they were bullied at one time. Or because they are emotionally scarred or the just hate the world. They sometimes just do it for fun or to look cool in front of their friends. Laws can protect you but in some states they don’t have the laws to protect you. (Stop bullying)…
Bullies do not fit into a neat little box. They come from all walks of lives, all ages, all genders, all races, and all cultures. “Bullies are very often people who have been bullied or abused themselves. Sometimes they are experiencing life situations they cannot cope with, that leave them feeling helpless and out of control.” (TktTuder, 2000). Many times, a bully does not feel that they can find any other means of fitting in or carving out their own niche in life so they turn to being powerful in a way that they feel brings them respect. They feel that being feared is the way to gain respect and surround themselves with friends and people who look up to them. However, what they do not realize is that people are “friends” with them so they do not become a target of their bullying. It all comes down to fear. Another possibility of the reason being the bullying attitude is that they bully themselves feels that they have no control in their lives. Maybe their home life is out of control and they are not listened to or valued by their family. In order to compensate for the lack of value at home the bully finds it in other places in inappropriate and unhealthy ways. Even though these are all valid explanations sometimes the only explanation is that the bully is a mean and cruel person who only feels good when they can cause others harm. These types feel no remorse and rarely stop bullying. This may be a pattern for their entire lives. The above mentioned facts on bullies have been widely accepted for many years, but new research proposes that bullying is something entirely different to some people.” Psychologists used to believe that bullies have low self-esteem, and put down other people to feel better about themselves. While many bullies are themselves bullied at home or at school, new research shows that most bullies actually have excellent self-esteem. Bullies usually have a sense of entitlement and superiority over others, and lack compassion,…
On the first place, as a result of being bullied, victims may experience different and immediate mental and physical health related consequences. They may present a higher level of anxiety, and longer spaces of sadness, also some sleeping difficulties, head and stomach ache, and above all these, victims may present a very low self-esteem. Researchers from Finland discovered that victims are more likely than bullies to suffer from anxiety disorders, such as depression, separation anxiety, panic disorder, among others. Also, this psychological stress can cause victims' bodies to be less resistant to disease and infection, and therefore they may get sick more often.…
Often peer pressure will cause bullying. For example some people will encourage others to bully other people, the reason why people go along with peer pressure is that they want to be accepted. No one likes an outcast. Because of their desire to be part of the group and the need to assume a position of importance. Even if they know what they are doing is wrong, social acceptance creates enough temptation to wipe out a person’s conscience. However, people exposed to a bullying behaviour at a young age, perhaps from watching their parents, usually show this same behaviour at an older age because any living being projects the environment it grew up in. nonetheless, it all still comes down to wanting to be accepted.…
Bullied students typically lose confidence in themselves. They may experience depression, low self-esteem, and suicidal thoughts or they may lash out in violent ways--the most serious being school shootings.…
What contributes to bullying? Bullying stems from households where children are either neglected or have their own way all the time. The ones that come from neglected homes or broken families, bullying becomes a way of life for them. They do it in order to survive, some people may call it survival mode. Being a bully does not mean that you poor or less fortunate however because the other kind of bullies are formed by children having their own way all the time. When they are home their parents give them anything they want and let them have their own way but when they come out into the real world and they realize that they can not always have what they want they turn to bullying to get it. Sometimes parents believe that by affording their children with more than they need…
People who bully are people that engage in bullying behaviour to the people around them. These are the people that require support to change their behaviour. Kids who tend to bully also engage on risky behaviours such as abuse and alcohol and other drugs…
Bullying, as common as it may be, needs to be mitigated, or better yet stopped. The community needs to take more action and be more alert to this matter to lessen the problem’s influences on every student in our society.…
Bullying is being triggered by variety of causes. Specifically in family issues where in poor parental supervision takes place between parents and children. Social media issues where different types of programs affects the personality and mindset of an individual towards self and others. Institutional issues where there is an absence of standardized way for people to treat each other, as a result bullying may be more likely prevalent and have an influence on why people bully. Cultural issues varies in language of different country it serves as a barrier that affects each other’s understanding towards the real message of the said context regarding bullying. Also, it depends on the traditions they have adopted in the society. Racial discrimination takes when a person is treated less favorably than another person in a similar situation because of their race, color, descent, national or ethnic origin or immigrant status. Likewise, individuals suffering identity confusion manifests jealousy, envy, attention seeking personality, strive for superiority and pleases people for popularity they also seeks for revenge for what happened to them in the past that they also displays the same thing to others.…