Bruno Bettelheim

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A Critique of “Cinderella” A Story of Sibling Rivalry and Oedipal Conflicts
By Bruno Bettelheim

Bruno Bettelheim is a Freudian Psychologist. This is a psychologist who relates

psychoanalytic theories or practices of Sigmund Freud. In this story he compares sibling

rivalry with the story of “Cinderella”. We all know the story of “Cinderella”, who

stepmother and stepsisters would make her do all the work, cleaning, sewing, everything,

while they would just sit back and make demands of her.

He believes that the mistreatment of Cinderella by her stepmother and stepsister’s were

just plain sibling rivalry. In this instance of course it would be step – sibling rivalry. In

this story he relates to us that many times a child may produce sibling rivalry in their

mind. This comes from his belief that we are not conscious of what goes on in our

unconscious part of the mind. He goes on to say that deep down the child does not really

think they are “Cinderella” but at times when the child is very emotional, they may think

that it is them that is doing all the work with no help.

He goes on to talk of jealousy, a form of sibling rivalry. Perhaps they are jealous of an

older brother or sister, who is very talented at numerous things, sports, school, more

friends. If you try telling the child that some day he will be equally good at all the things,

they won’t believe it. He lacks confidence needed to be dominant over his siblings.

He believes that the child soon starts to think that they deserve to be mistreated. They

deserve to be the slave, because they have no confidence in themselves. Even if they

created it in their mind, or it is truly happening in their family.

I believe a lot has to do with the way the family handles certain situations. Were the

older kids brought up to be very competitive? Has the mother allowed brothers and

sisters to make fun at

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