Big Mama, old men playing checkers, castor iron skillets, and well-seasoned food remind me of growing up back home in the south. When my big mama was in the kitchen you could smell the aroma of the food all throughout the house, this is what black is. I did not get that same feeling when I would visit friends’ homes for dinner that were not black, maybe because of our different culture and traditions in the kitchen. Watching older male figures in my life play checkers down the street with Pop Scandret and others was what I was accustomed to going over my big mamas’ house. That environment is part of what shaped me into the person I …show more content…
When I picture black masculinity, it’s a man expressing whom he is, i.e. the dancer in the film, something that was taken away in the past. It is a man supporting his family, something that was also taken away in the past. I did not see much of a male figure in the film when Marlon would talk about him family; he talked about his mom and big mama. My father wasn’t there in my early stages of my life, but my god father was my father figure, it seems in many black families at times the mother is the person that deals with the children the most, but that’s not in all