So sad that you are going through hell, but most people have gone, or are going through a similar situation, especially with kids in their teens rebelling against parents. Four, five years down the line they will realize that life is not a bed of roses and will apologize for their misdeeds sooner or later. We had more or less similar situations with the third born (girl) and last born (boy). To make matters worse here in the US, you cannot discipline your child; the authorities will arrest you. Years later, they reformed and have become responsible individuals in their respective communities.
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