Analysis: Getting Off And Getting Intimate

Getting Off and Getting Intimate

How does a women decide whether a man is into her or not? Most times it could be the way he approaches her. This article shows that the total institution will have an effect on your mindset because in order to be a member of that group, you have to learn a new value system. In class we discussed that there are racial differences not because so much that these guys are black but because these guys are black in a society where the dominant group is white and within consciousness being in an upper class institution; there’s a certain way that they talk. If you’re in the most prestigious fraternity chances are you’re good looking, probably come from money, are athletically inclined, etc. This becomes a part
“Nine of the 15 white participants report engaging in sexual behavior that they do not prefer including performing oral sex because of a women’s desirable physical characteristics. One black male says he definitely thinks his fraternity brothers do a lot of stuff that make women feel appreciated like getting them flowers, writing them a poem, or just telling them they look beautiful” (152). If men do these kinds of things nowadays, I think it shows he’s a very caring, loyal, and genuine guy who wants to get to know the women better or actually have a connection with. “Conversely, many white men describe a very different notion of respecting women. Their idea of respecting a woman is letting her sleepover. Whereas if a guy were to do this today, they would think the women is “easy” and letting her sleepover would be thought of as trying to get in her pants depending on how long they’ve known each other. “White men understand a serious relationship as primarily in terms of physical monogamy, whereas black men define serious relationships in terms of socio-emotional exchanges”
Sounds to me like they like to take advantage of women and do as they please regardless of the consequence. “Women normally engage in relationships to be associated with a particular fraternity and to have access to fraternity functions and or alcohol. By engaging in a relationship with a guy in a fraternity, women also have to uphold a certain look/act to fit in since they now have a connection with the guy. I believe women do this to be popular as well or to gain attention being that they are also able to go to fraternity functions and receive free alcohol. But what the women don’t think of is the consequences after all the partying or shame they have to go through while being with a fraternity guy if he himself does something bad. The fraternity house also facilitates a convenient means of engaging sexual behavior. This could potentially lead to unwanted pregnancies at a young age or influence the use of unprotected sex. “White men are ashamed to be romantic because they indicate that they could never get away with having romantic time and say the houses aren’t private enough since they