October 16, 2013
A long time ago the difference between perception and reality was defined as the act of understanding in contrast to the act of being real. Reality could be tricky; most of us including myself depending on scenarios of our lives tend to give in to ideas which are not applicable to reality as a whole. The best example of this is written in the short story “All Over” by Guy de Maupassant. In which his main character Lormerin is very self conscious and narcissistic also Lise de Vance, a former old love plays a big role in hurting Lormerin ego and opening his eyes by showing him, his real self. Many would say that when reality knocks it could be harsh and confusing. In the next couple of paragraphs I want to show how my understanding of reality can be applied to the short story previously mentioned. Every day life brings so many unexpected moments of which we dream of but never really happen, this is where we draw the line for reality and perception of a perfect to be situation. Reality is in the eyes of the beholder and no one can really change that, all of us are born dreamers. When things get out of hand and reality hits, this is where people suffer. Why do we suffer? We suffer because we give too much or expect too much and not everyone has the same ideals when returning the favor. Also, some events might be trifling to some but extremely important to others.
We, as human beings are very sensitive and constantly looking for affection and acceptance, this being one of the main reasons of why we suffer. It is very important to understand that reality has to do with the way we think and feel about ourselves, there are a lot of emotions involved. Self esteem plays a big role in why and what makes us suffer because in reality we choose who to let in our lives, but it should be noted that those close relatives are the ones that cause the most damage. If I was to ask, what is real? What are the possible answers for that question? Many would argue that real is perception of life as it is, impressions or memories that we carry on for years until they vanish. In the other hand, I would argue that real is something that we count on, smell, touch and could hear. I see myself one way but I am convinced that every single person in this room might have a different saying about me which is fine because I could see myself differently at various points but it all boils down to one personality that adapts to different scenarios. The reason of this paper is to explain reality in the character of Lormerin. Lormerin is a bachelor whom approached life with a narcissist persona. The story begins with Lormerin gazing at a mirror, admiring what a fine man he was. This specific scenario which most likely takes place every single day of his life tells a lot about his persona. He murmured “Lormerin is still alive!” In the morning he would sit down on his work table where he would gaze and rearrange his mail like multiple piles of emotions and then proceed to open which ever caught his attention. A very particular letter from Lise de Vance, an old love which he has not seen in twenty five years caught him off guard and turned his world upside down from this point on. Lise left Paris with her husband with who she procreated a girl. Now, that Lise husband passed away she is returning and has sent an invitation to dinner to Lormerin. She informed him of the birth of her daughter to which he did not pay attention. In the letter she pours a lot of emotions and makes it obvious that she have been told that “he is still the handsome Lormerin” yet she refers about herself as the elderly Baronne de Vance. Why does she do this? It might be envy, that she grew old and he still look handsome. Once he finished reading the letter, the mixed emotions and the heart beat went out the roof. After all, Lise might have been the only woman for which Lormerin actually felt love for. The letter that she wrote seemed...
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