Preview

Sticks and Stones and Such Like

Good Essays
Open Document
Open Document
424 Words
Grammar
Grammar
Plagiarism
Plagiarism
Writing
Writing
Score
Score
Sticks and Stones and Such Like
Sticks and Stones and Such-like is a story that explains how an innocent indian boy doesn’t fit into socity because of his name, Sunil. I was able to relate the story a bit as my mum and family had a bit of the same problem when they moved to Australia. It is interesting to see Sunil ashamed of his name for majority of the story and how his mother’s influence helped find his belonging.

Sunil begins his story with names he would be called just because of his race, for instance curry muncher, towel-head,darkie and nig-nog. It would then be followed up with a “Chinese burn or a dead-leg.” Sunil had everything going against him, he was indian and had dark skin and he had an Indian name which people would bag him about because they couldn’t pronounce it. This shows us that the group of people at that time were extremely racist and that it would of been very hard for Sunil to fit in, which led him to change his name to Neil.

Neil found a false sense of belonging with his name change. Good on him for doing it, as this stopped majority of people making fun of his name and as he said, “I could feel their approval at the effort I was making to fit in.” To be honest, I believe most people that would of been in this situation may have done the same thing, as us Aussie’s can be really harsh to people with different names or colour of skin.

After Kieran blowing Sunil’s cover name, his mother gave a a nice long lecture as to what his name really meant. I can imagine my uncle or aunty doing this in their accents, and as Sunil felt, it is not a good place to be or the postion they put you in. Curry parents are not people to mess with when your on their bad side. But it’s good to see the influence his mum’s lecture had on Sunil’s life and the courage that she put in him to be proud of his name. As we grow up, the influence our family has on our life is massive and it doesn’t surprise me how Sunil reacted. I believe it’s important that if you have a “different” name, to take

You May Also Find These Documents Helpful

  • Good Essays

    There are many instances in Ken Mitchell’s play The Shipbuilder, where the main character Jaanus Karkulainen, insists on being called by his Finnish name Karkulainen. In the play, many characters call him Johnny Crook. This situation creates controversy about names and shows how important names are to some people. Jaanus and Jukka create most of this controversy.…

    • 588 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Jhumpa Lahiri Culture

    • 653 Words
    • 3 Pages

    Those that live in America and those that live in India have different lifestyles and traditions, but when you have to balance both, it’s difficult to figure out who you truly are. Gogol grows up throughout the book with a Hindu-Indian family while living in America. He confronts the challenge of assimilating while trying to pursue two cultures. As he gets older, he then tries to find his identity by changing his name from Gogol to Nikhil and starts different relationships. But Gogol then realized that what has held him and his family together has been the Indian culture, which has influenced him from the moment he was born and named. In the novel The Namesake by Jhumpa Lahiri, Gogol was influenced greatly by the Indian culture because it motivated…

    • 653 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    The struggle to find self identity within the upbringing of two different and contradictory cultural groups is the main theme for Alice Pung's memoir Unpolished Gem and Mira Nair's film The Namesake. The main characters for each, Alice Pung and Gogol Ganguli respectively grow up the children of immigrants from developing to western countries who are torn between respecting, participating and identifying with traditions from their parents countries or fully immersing themselves in the identity of the western country they were born in. Pung and Nair explore this confusion through the assimilation of main characters and the effect this has on their parents, the experience of intercultural dating and how it can be a symptom of rejection of culture and parent’s wishes. The significance of a name in developing a cross cultural identity is also…

    • 1349 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Why are people inclined to mask their true selves? The motivation could be complicated. As human beings it is our intrinsic desire to be anchored in a community which is greater than us. However, there are always discrepancies between group identity and individuality. We may renounce or conceal certain aspects of our identities to promote the procedure of assimilating into the group. The urge of belonging at the expense of shaping individuality could be exemplified in Sunil Badami’s sympathetically portrayed narrative, ‘Sticks and Stones and Such Like’, where Sunil is insulted by his prejudiced classmates as ‘darkie’ and ‘black bastard’ because of his distinct Indian heritage. Sunil not only, ‘scrubs his right arm until the blood began to sink’ to expunge his Indian existence, but also adopted an authentic Aussie name to disguise his ‘too Indian’ name. Even though this attempt prompts various problems for Sunil, he still confesses that he fails to connect his Indian being with his Australian experience’. Thus, as evidenced by Sunil’s experience, creating a false identity to reassure oneself appears to be a ubiquitous issue for those who struggle to belong.…

    • 897 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    The Things They Caried

    • 1476 Words
    • 6 Pages

    In "the things they carried" Tim O'Brien defines a fine line between fiction and non-fiction in the form of story telling and the memories he has accumulated from his participation in the Vietnam war the way they "seemed" rather than "what happened" because that’s how you tell "a true war story" and that’s how the book effectively engages the reader throughout the whole book because nothing is ordinary, not even the way the book is put together, you just can’t anticipate anything and therefore leaves you glued on to the book wondering what he'll throw at you next. In order to put together such war stories Tim O'Brien uses many rhetorical devices to put the reader in the characters shoes such as flashbacks and great detail in imagery to drag you into the scene. He also uses symbolism in order to develop his characters and express their qualities of who they are, in addition to using anecdotes throughout the story and hyperbole in order to tell a "true war story".…

    • 1476 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Despite the fact that one’s name is selected by somebody else and inevitably predetermines their fate , while they are living their life they can shape their name to try and conform their own values while also leaving it as a legacy once they are gone. Throughout Song of Solomon, the names of the characters help to disclose an immense amount about their personalities, as well, as how their monetary status creates their motivation, effects their decisions, and helps to form their legacy. Throughout the novel, many of the character’s names are chosen by someone else but still empower them to make the name, their own which helps to liberate them to indulge in a more prosperous life, rather than a life strictly focused on gaining a…

    • 839 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    things they carried

    • 536 Words
    • 2 Pages

    In “The Things They Carried,” Lieutenant Jimmy Cross is torn between being a good leader to his soldiers and his love for Martha, thus making him a truly dynamic character. A dynamic character is someone who undergoes an important, internal change because of action in the plot. For example, personality or attitude would be two that play a role in against Lieutenant. Jimmy cross shows us in the story just what a dynamic character is, and I am going to explain how he acts before the climax and how he evolves after.…

    • 536 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Good Essays

    In The Namesake based on the book and movie by Jhumpa Lahiri, there are several events and scenes that are interpreted differently throughout the film and book. The book is based on Gogol Ganguli, the son of immigrant parents Ashoke and Ashima Ganguli who struggles with his double identity and rebellion towards his family. The movie is quite different with its focus on the parents and their relationship more than Gogol, the main character. The characters in the book that are portrayed by the actors in the film are very important because it subtracts and diverts the focus of Gogol’s struggles who is the heart of the novel.…

    • 906 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Most connections between people begin with learning the other person’s name. When exchanging names doesn’t occur then it usually means that either one or both of the people want to keep things impersonal. Keeping things impersonal can have its advantages but it can also create risks. Names make a connection and without that connection people become objects, titles, or ideas. When a person is given a title in place of a name they become the title instead of a person.…

    • 577 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Nikolai Gogol, the author he was named after, was Russian. An Indian having a Russian name would have been unheard of in Calcutta where his parents are from. In America it isn't like that at all. All kinds of people have all kinds of different names and more often than not parents pick out their children's name simply because they like it, and not because it has any significance whatsoever. That is not to say that all names have no importance in America. People are often named after relatives or favorite actors or even favorite authors like Gogol. This was just a more American thing to do than an Indian thing and it makes Gogol more American from that point…

    • 2414 Words
    • 10 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Things They Carried

    • 911 Words
    • 4 Pages

    In the book, The Things They Carried written by Tim O’Brien, the challenges faced by war are explained in the form of stories. The effects that war can have on a soldier in Vietnam are not solely limited to the physical state, but also the mental state, as is shown when O’Brien introduces the character Mary Anne Bell in chapter nine. The corruption that war brought to an individual’s life led to an altered view of morality and Innocence, as well as the desensitization of an individual.…

    • 911 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    things they carried

    • 454 Words
    • 2 Pages

    In the novel The Things They Carried, author Tim O’Brien offers the “happy ending” described by Fay Weldon through his own “spiritual reassessment and moral reconciliation.” While the novel itself is not a series of happy memories or events, the telling of them allows the author to come to terms with the loss of his innocence and his own limitations. As the author closes, he finally concludes that while his war-time experiences change him from the person he once was, telling stories is the way he can preserve his innocence and the memories of those he has lost.…

    • 454 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Things They Carried

    • 1211 Words
    • 5 Pages

    The Things They Carried, by Tim O’Brien, is about the experience multiple soldiers go through during the Vietnam War. There are stories about the love, hardships, friendships, and loss all the soldiers go through. By going to war, the soldiers all lose a part of themselves. I believe the message Tim O’Brien is trying to convey in his novel is people who do not go to the war, do not understand what it is like. I think throughout this novel, O’Brien tries his best to give the people who are not a part of the war an opportunity to understand. There are multiple examples throughout, The Things They Carried, demonstrating there is no clear understanding from the people at home for what it is like at war. In addition to the disconnection, Tim…

    • 1211 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    On Chapter 4, Paragraph 9 “For by now, he's come to hate questions pertaining to his name, hates having constantly to explain. He hates having to tell people that it doesn't mean anything "in Indian." ” It shows that unlike other people he doesn't think his culture is the most important thing in this world. He hates the questions. The poverty that everyone seems to ask about. He hates people assuming that he knows everything about India simply because his own parents are Indian, to him it’s not that way, it barely is. Deep down to him he’s more American than he’ll ever be Indian. On chapter six, paragraph 140 it states “And then he remembers that his parents can't possibly reach him: he has not given them the number, and the Ratliffs are unlisted. That here at Maxine's side, in this cloistered wilderness, he is free.” Never really proud of his background, of his heritage, wasn’t content with the people he was surrounded with. Which lead him to be embarrassed if his own parents and his bengali family members. He always tried his best to be as far away from his parents, even from the several memories of his childhood. He would change his priorities, letting people he just met be at the top of his list, than his own parent and…

    • 522 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Powerful Essays

    Sunil’s story is defiantly about trying to belong. Sunil was called lots of things, well in fact nearly every racist name under the sun, curry-muncher, towel-head, abo, coon, boong, darkie, nig-nog and so on. Some type of assault followed this. After he would tell his mother and she would just say "Stones and sticks and such-like can only shake your skeleton. Just rise over it!" This upset him even more because it wasn’t even said right. After a while he got used to the names and dead legs. He took the verbal assault like a good sport. The only thing that would upset him now was his name because no one could pronounce it properly. So he would tell everyone that his name was Neil. But soon enough his mother found out that he changed his name at school. She wondered why he had changed it and he spat out "I hate it". She believed that Sunil is a beautiful name. This was because Sunil meant the breeze that blows on Lord Shiva's (God Of Destruction) birthday. After finding out what his name meant his opinion of the name changed. He is now proud of his name because it had meaning while other kid's names did not. In a name book for Indian children he found his name's description said dark one. A saying that has been with him forever. This connects to Identity and Belonging because he changed his name to a more Aussie name in order to belong with the Aussie kids. The name…

    • 1250 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Powerful Essays