While my voice, especially in professional and academic settings, sounds controlled, I am often worried I sound arrogant. That too, of course, is something men do not worry about, but that is a separate topic. In order to ensure that my voice is heard and what I say carries weight, I have restricted my voice to sound as though I have full control over my life. I recall numerous moments from high school when I would be the only or one of the few girls in a class about courts or the judicial …show more content…
Like Rodenburg says, one has to have major realizations about these laughing habits before change can be brought. My freshman year at Skidmore, I met so many people who could make me laugh till my eyes were full of tears and my body was out of control. My boarding school fostered an exceedingly stressful and competitive environment, and I was also the only international student who was not Korean or Chinese. I think part of the fact that people at Skidmore could make me laugh was because they were so different than students at my boarding school. I met people from all over the world, from Africa to Latin America, who were interested in all sorts of things, from theater to biochemistry, and this diversity helped me let go. It was a joy I had perhaps never felt before. I slowly started noticing my habits about laughing