That day I awoke early for make makeup and hair to be done, then quickly rode off in my limo for the day to church. The mass went well but once it was over my court and I headed to the reception hall. Once there, I noticed nearly five hundred people, friends and family from all over California and the U.S. Then once it was time for the father daughter dance, instead of cherishing that moment we talked about minor party details. By 12am once the party was over and everything was getting cleaned up I felt relieved that the day had finally concluded. However, just like I explained how my quinceañeras unfolded was how it actually was, event after even and I never felt the spark I had imagined as a child. For a slight moment I felt like a princess but not like I believed it would entirely…
“I want to be a ballerina princess”. You see, the difference between a regular princess and a ballerina princess is the elegance. Ballerinas held an elegance and ferocity during performances that were sensational. On the other hand, Disney princesses always had their happy endings and by combining both, my goal was set. Soon enough, ballet performances and Disney movies about princesses clouded my practicality with absurd idealism.…
I arrived to a church crowded with friends and family. So many people had gone to St. John’s Cathedral to witness the simple, yet elegant, tradition. There were also relatives from Mexico and Puerto Rico who took the long tiring trip to attend. I was honored to see so many people there on my special day. My court of honor led the way into the church. When it was my turn to walk down the aisle, soft music was played by the organist. I felt like a princess walking in my big, beautiful ball gown. My gown was similar to a wedding dress except it was a pastel pink. When the ceremony started it was nerve racking. I was thinking about my hair and people staring at me from behind, and hoping my tiara or…
March 29, 2010 was the date of my big celebration. Before my party, months and months of planning took place before everything was done. Finding the perfect dress, the reception, decorations and much more was not an easy task. Three months till my Quinceanera and I still had not found my dress in which I would feel like a princess in. We came across a small boutique, and luckily, the very first dress the manger suggested I fell in love with. As soon as I tried it on, I knew it was the perfect dress, and looking for a dress was now off my list. A beautiful white strapless ball gown with sparkly coral accents was sure to impress my guests. Looking for the right reception was a much easier decision as I chose to have it at The Marriot Hotel by the beach in Ventura, CA.…
When I turned fourteen, I had a long talk with my parents about my big day only being a year away and how we needed to start with all of the preparations. The first thing I look for was my dress. In my vision, it was the most beautiful, shiny, and spongy dress. I wanted to be a princess for a day. One day after school my older sister, Carolina, had a magazine with prom dresses in it. Since she was a senior, she was on the looking for a dress too. As we saw the magazine, we found a lot of pretty dresses and told my mom to take us shopping, so that Carolina could try some on. As we arrived to the store "Glitz and Glamour", we found out they sold quinceañera dresses as well. My mom asked the employee to bring us some quinceañera dress magazines, while Caro and I watched the magazines for prom dresses. Suddenly, I stumbled upon a beautiful, green, shiny dress. It was perfect. As soon as I saw it, I said, "Mom, I want this dress for my quinceañera." We told the lady that I wanted the dress and she explained that it was available in pink and green. Since I had fallen in love with the color, I told my mom I wanted it in green, but since the tradition is pink, it was obvious that my mom was going to say no. I disagreed with my mom and ordered it green. The lady told us that my dress would arrive in four days. I was…
As a daddy’s girl, having my dad around to celebrate was the highlight of my day. As I told my family about my very depressing day at school, I had no idea what was about to come. Once the mini party was over and my young next-door neighbor went home for the night, I got ready for bed. I sat in bed talking and playing with my brother until my father walked in with my Nana close behind him. They sat on the edge of the bed and before my dad said a word I knew exactly what he was about to say.…
Today was the day, it was the day of the dance I have been waiting for this day all year. I…
After the festivities, it was time to relax and reflect on my big day. I became a woman, and now it was time to act like one, I invited my court of honor into my home to thank them and honor them with a dinner. I gave each of them a gift showing my gratitude and appreciation for them sharing this special day with me. I opened my gifts, which were all lovely and greatly appreciated. Lastly, we looked at the pictures from the night before and reflected on how I will change to become the young lady and role model I needed to…
It all began with shopping. First with my girlfriends over the years, goofing off on trips to the mall trying on gorgeous flowing gowns for fun, and then it was finally time for me to buy one, finally a formal occasion where I got to dress up in a fancy gown with high heels, my Mom took me to the mall. Even though it wasn’t quite prom, it was still a formal dance, a celebration of completing middle school and entering into high school. While I shopped with my Mom I could sense her excitement for me. It was exciting and special for her to see her little girl growing up. We shopped and shopped, I must’ve tried on a hundred dresses until I found the perfect one. It was pink with tiny embroidered flowers all over. I completed my look with strappy silver heels, silver jewelry and a hand bag.…
After that thanksgiving, the next time we all saw each other was at Christmas. Mom was, for the first time, able to actually get us gifts. After our big Christmas dinner, mom told all our kids the story of Christmas. The next morning we all sat around the Christmas tree exchanging gifts. “Here”, Mom said, “This one is for you Jeanette”, as she handed me a small box. I looked up at Mom and saw her smiling as wide as her face would let her. I looked inside the box and saw the little doll that I had when I was very little but had to leave behind when we left our camp at the beginning of my story. I was so surprised she had found another one of the exact same dolls. My happiness was tangible, and I immediately stood up and gave her a hug. Mom did the same for Brian, Lori, and Maureen.…
I turned 13, and finally, I could attend my very first St. Jude Teen Formal. I was so happy that I could cry. One day before therapy, I asked my mother for a dress. I told her that it did not have to be anything fancy, as long as it was not too ugly. When my mom picked me up from therapy, I noticed a dress bag in the front seat.…
Driving through a snow storm on a cold October night, my mother held in her arms a child she expected to see a week later. In the blink of an eye, sixteen years of my life passed by.…
As humans we are all faced with events that occur in our lifespan in which some become memorable. In my case, being adopted is my most memorable event in my life thus far. It all resulted from my biological mother passing at a very young age when I was only 6 years of age. I then was placed into the foster care system where I lived in two different homes until I finally felt like I was at home. I felted right at home with my new family, which consisted of only a widowed mother and about seven foster sisters. We were all part of this extremely diverse family and loved one another. My mother was 65 years of age when she decided to adopt her first adopted child, which was me. It brought me to tears to realize that this woman who only took me in to shelter me wanted me to become her daughter. It was Feb. 19, 1998 in Concord, Ma where I no longer was Danitza Bracero and became Daniza Marie Bracero Potvin. I finally was adopted by a widowed mother that adored me and loved me unconditionally. Although she was quite older than your average adoptive parent she had me involved in all types of activities. Her age didn’t make a difference in the way my childhood was and whatever I wanted to get involved into she made sure I participated. She showed me how it was to love, care and devote yourselves to others and which I did. I was young, free and enjoyed every day on earth while she was by my side. It was not until the year of 2005 that she became sick and her medical health went downhill. It left me no choice but to move to the Cape with my godparents who provided me with shelter. They also showed me how it was to feel loved and be in a household family with a mother and dad. Although, living with them was also another memorable life event it didn’t compare to the one I shared with my mother. In 2008, she experienced a life threatening health care and was hospitalized. I spent every moment by her side in her hospital room while she was…
I was at my house, it was six a.m. Sat. May 17, 2014, I was 15 and five months. This day is very important to me because it was a day I will never forget. I remember waking up to the voice of my mom saying “Sabina wake up it’s time for you to start getting ready you don’t wanna be late to your church.” So that’s when I got up right then and said to myself “Oh yeah it’s today, the day I have always been waiting for.” So as I get up I walk out of my house go two houses down my street so that one of my brothers older sisters can do my hair. Getting ready and all took three hrs after she got done with my hair I went back home to change into my big dress that I was gonna be wearing all day that day.…
Ending my junior year excitedly summer was going to began, one thing I looked forward to all school year long but this year it was different this time around.I looked forward to something else. I wanted to try something new and different, something I have never done before. Since I was small all I could remember was wanting to be a cheerleader in high school. Just the preppiness, attitude, and sass, I knew I would do great because I had all those traits. The cute cheer uniforms and bows and all the fun and excitement Cheer came with.…