Women Are Better Parents Than Men

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From the original perspective which is carried out up to date some communities and individuals, women had been regarded with the role of rearing children. Biologically it is necessity that women give birth as well upholds the responsibility of feeding the baby. Traditionally, women were thus considered as natural parents while fathers were only regarded to be important during conception after which they were considered to be nuisance.

Though fathers are nowadays getting involved in child care more than they used to be, I strongly stand with the notion that women make good parents than men. At a closer look, women start bonding with their children right from the conception. This tends or brings them closer to the children and it is further facilitated by the daily routines they carry out to their children for example feeding to them taking care of them.

Worldwide, it is known that a higher percentage of women do not work. Especially in the third world countries, women often remain home with their children as me going to work. This means that they play a very vital role in determining how the child will grow and how well or bad behaved the child will. Many people naturally like to make the best they can. This is why I strongly support women will make good parents and been better than men.

According to studies, people tend to understand each other more through socialization. This means, women will end up understanding their children more due to the time they spend with them. It is known that a higher percentage of men whether working or not tend hang around more with their friends during their leisure time. In most cases they will show up in their home later in the day unlike women who always feel they have the duty to attend to making them spend more time at home thus more time to be with the children.

The other factor that makes women good parents is their innate nature of being more caring and forgiving. This puts them a notch higher than men for they will tend to forgive their children when they wrong unlike men who they immediate action in most cases will be to punish them. This will lead to morally upright children for they will have understood what is good and what is bad. Also there has been a lot of attention paid to the notion that there occurs some hormonal changes during birth which makes the woman to engage vigorously in care taking and happens to do it more efficiently than any body else who have not gone through the birth process.

Just imagine how the bible describes the woman after they ate the forbidden fruit. She was told that she would have pain while giving birth and her hole will be to rear the children. I think most societies tended to follow the suit and thus expect women to play a greater role in parenting. The man on the other hand was so sweat as he toiled the land in an attempt to provide daily needs for the family.

Role models plays a major part in determining the direction the child takes as he or she grows up. From a tender age, girls try to emulate their mothers with duties like child rearing and that is why they are very fond with dolls, engage in cooking games among others which are more associated with what they see their mothers doing. This means even as a small girl, she clearly starts to prepare to be a parent just from the beginning.

Look at the scenario of what happens in case of a divorce. Often the courts decide in favor for women. This clearly shows that even the authority thinks and believes that women make good parents and that is why men are not given the opportunity to be the custodian of children during divorce. Emotionally, women tend to be empathetic putting them into the shoes of their children.

This implies they are better placed to understand what their children are going through and gives them opportunity to advice and counsel their children in time of need. Women carry their babies in their wombs and since birth they are attached to their babies for...
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