Why Marriage Matters

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Marriage, a Backbone to Civilization

Marriage matters. If marriage did not matter, would it even be considered when growing up? The common child at some point thinks about getting married and having children. Our society has gone through monumental shifts throughout its history. A theme that has not changed however, marriage, has survived through it all due to its importance. Our children and our health are two of the most important aspects of life. Marriage will help in both of those categories. Children have better relationships with their parents because of marriage. Watching their parents, they grow up having better relationships themselves. Increased success in school has been noted. Families are more financially stable, leading to a better environment for a child. And of course, we need our health to maintain anything, and that too is affected by marriage. Marriage is recognized everywhere in the world. It has been around for centuries and is a cornerstone to the foundation of modern day society.

Having your mom and dad around is great. When mom cannot handle something, go ask dad. When dad cannot handle something, go ask mom. Where a strong marriage is, a strong family tie lies within. CIVITAS, the Institute for the Study of Civil Society reports: On average, children whose parents married and stayed married see their fathers more frequently than children whose parents divorced or never married and have more affectionate relationships with their fathers. I have witnessed this myself among my friends whose parents are separated or divorced. Love is there for both mom and dad but one parent is just around more often. In all my friends’ cases, their mother is the caretaker. Marriage allows for fathers to be around their children more often. Mothers are not left out in this case however. CIVITAS tells us, “In one American study, 30 percent of young adults whose parents divorced reported poor relationships with their mothers, compared to 16 percent of children whose parents stayed married.” Marriage has a great benefit to improving the parent-child relationship.

Marriage concept undoubtedly comes from your own parents. Who else’s marriage are your children watching day in and day out growing up? It is no surprise that a child, whose parents stay married, will generally have better relationships themselves. Marriage has a huge effect on daughters. A problem facing many young women today is premarital sex and parenthood. CIVITAS agrees:

For daughters, growing up in a married family seems to help them avoid engaging in early sexual activity. This is important because early sexual activity tends to lead to teenage pregnancy and early partnering—which itself can increase the risks of having children outside marriage or of divorcing. Daughters raised outside marriage are twice as likely to become teenage mothers, twice as likely to have a child outside marriage (or outside a cohabiting union) and 50 percent more likely to divorce. Parents’ marriage is vitally important to the future outcome of the child’s marriage. The daughters are not the only one’s deeply affected though. “For sons, parental divorce doubles the odds that they will have a child outside marriage as well as the risk that they will divorce”, CIVITAS states. The correlation between marriage and a child’s relationship with others is as apparent as light. Yes, children have better relationships with their parents when they are married. Yes, they do tend to have stronger relationships of their own when older. What happens when you take marriage out of the equation? Abuse of another human being is a common problem of our society. You do not hear of abuse taking place so much in a strong connected household versus a family that is constantly having trouble or missing one parent. The Heritage Foundation, a research and educational think tank points out the necessity of marriage. Rick Santorum a former...
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