From early on in life we are taught by either society how we should look, dress, and act. Men learn that they should be strong, and powerful while females learn to be beautiful and desirable at all times. “Bros Before Hos: They Guy Code” by Michael Kimmel speaks on how society teaches men to be masculine. While “Two Ways a Woman Can Get Hurt: Advertising and Violence” by Jean Kilbourne speaks on how society promotes men to view women as sexual objects. Both pieces of literature shows how society can mold and or change the way we think and feel.
Many men feel pressured into being masculine, not showing emotion, and being tough at all times. Michael Kimmel’s “Bros Before Hos: They Guy Code” talks about how men are expected to follow this code of being masculine and any sense of femininity would be looked down upon and ridiculed. “Our effort to maintain a manly front cover everything we do. How we talk. How we walk. What we eat” (612) says Kimmel. By putting up this masculine front men aren’t really being themselves.
Many of us question where did this code come from? Well, when I was a child most young boys looked up to the super heroes which all happened to be men. These super heroes oozed of violence, muscles, and when they got hit they wouldn’t even feel it. Sounds similar right, well guys believe to be a real man that they have to be super hero like. When they are mad they react with violence, and when hurt they pretend they feel nothing.” Any fatigue, any weakness, any signs that being hit actually hurt and he was like wahh! [Fake crying] Widdle Donny got a boo boo. Should we kiss it guys?”(611) Showing emotion is compared to being a child in the quote above and to be a man you have to pretend to be tough.
Jean Kilbourne’s “Two Ways a Woman Can Get Hurt: Advertising and Violence” speaks on how society uses advertising to portray women as sexual objects. She also goes on to state how advertisements promote rape and violence towards women.” Male violence...
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