Think Ck

As often as I think quick, and somehow through God’s gift I am able to grasp words and pair them in a way as to be motivational or influential to those around me, this time it wasn’t   so easy to do. As this time, unlike most the words didn’t so effortlessly piece together in my head. ……I said to myself you know what….google “mans graduation”….nothing. I tried “ poems for a graduating man” and I yet was left with no results.

My husband can probably vouch for me , then again he was snoring so loud at 1am that he probably couldn’t. At any means I just couldn’t figure out what to say. originally I had decided within my self that I would give an oversight of a man….. You see my thinking was I cant go to deep, I just don’t know Creston like that….
In my frustration I allowed my thoughts to wonder…….Sherri what in the world were you thinking, having me   a woman who has the slightest insight on your husband   to speak….I don’t know him like that I just see him!

At that moment it hit me…..I realized although I didn’t know Creston , I knew him. I know your thinking   hold up now, you need to explain that, cause your not making any sense. But hear me out.
Seeing him….is my ability to know him.

You see when you have a formal introduction into someone’s life, although we trust that they are genuine, that introduction can be easily molded into what that person wants it to be.   when my husband says come here baby I want you to meet someone, in a split second regardless of my current disposition,   I am able to reposition my attitude (if if just for that moment) to present myself in the best light.

Now I know its some of us in here that say…Im gone always be me, Im real…you get what you get….you may wanna do some research on first impressions and how influential they are.
At any rate , If I know you, I know that im coming around you, I can easily make sure that you only see me in a certain light. But if your existence to me is unimportant, minute, void….you can most... [continues]

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