The Society at Large

Only available on StudyMode
  • Download(s) : 407
  • Published : January 3, 2013
Open Document
Text Preview
ARRANGED MARRIAGES
Arranged marriages are causing more harm than good to the couples involved and the society at large. An arranged marriage is a marriage that is pre-arranged by some person other than the couple involved. These pp try to bring the couple together and convince them with reasons why they should marry each other. These marriages have many disadvantages. 1. Interests

Pp who arrange marriages between 2 pp have some goals and objectives that they wish to attain and may use the marriage as an opportunity to attain such. For instance, parents may insist their child marries someone from a wealthy home so their financial needs can be met. The marriage other than benefiting the couple, rather seeks to serve the interest of the arranger. In this case, there is a greater possibility that the arranger will be interfering in the marriage, depriving the couple their privacy. 2. Values

Values and habits vary from individual to individual. What may be valuable to the arranger of the marriage may not necessarily be valuable to the couple in the marriage. A marriage arranger may for instance value financial status of one the couple, while the couple may value love above financial or social status. This is bound to cause problem in the marriage and may eventually break down. 3. Love

Most arranged marriages lack love that may keep marriage was arranged by someone else who had interests and so the couple may not have interest in it. Additionally, such marriages are arranged within a short time that, the couple do not take time to develop for each other. The marriage becomes more of living- together than a marriage. These marriages break down at the least provocation. 4. Incompatibility issues

This is the main effect of an arranged marriage. The couple may not know each other well and only get to know after they are married. They now get to identify the strengths and weaknesses of each other, which may be probably too late. They suffer a lot of...
tracking img