When a family adopts a child, the gender or the race should not change your perspective about the child. How you love and communicate with and for the child is what brings him or her closer to you and your family.
Bringing a child into your home and loving them like your own can change both yours and the Childs life. Is telling an outside-adopted child you love them and their now apart of your family hard at first. Yes it is. However, I can understand that to automatically show the child that you care, and are willing to sacrifice things for the child is hard. But no one seems to understand how the child feels especially an older child. To go into a new home with other children must feel awkward. Like in the movie the blindside at first Michael felt out of place. He felt like they only took him in just to do a good deed. Like most other families they only take in foster children just to get money from the government.” what’s love go to do with it?” it has a lot do with it.
Communicating with an outside child is more important than anything. Communicating begins with trust. Trusting the child helps you better understand the child. Talking and getting to know the child helps you better to deal with the child. Bringing the child into your home and not talking to them most likely make them feel like they do not belong. Like in the “Blind Side” when Michael first went to the Tuohy’s home they just gave him a cover and put him on the couch without talking communicating) with him, that’s why the next morning he got up and left. Just like that, most foster children do the same thing because they are not communicated with.
Why adopt a child outside your race, if you know you are going to criticize him or her. Most people adopt a child and the first thing they say or think is about the race of the child. When you say something about the child’s ethnicity, it is not okay, even if you do not mean it. Criticizing a child because of their...