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Copyright © 2012 by IISA VISI WASKITA Author: Dr. Edy Suhardono, M.Psi., S.Psi. Editor: Santi Sasono Cover & Layout: Siti Qomariyah First published by IISA VISIWASKITA Kompleks Ruko BSD Sektor IV Jl. Rinjani Blok RE No. 58 BSD City, Serpong Telp. 021-537 3482 Fax. 021-537 3480 All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any means, including photocopying, recording, or other electronic or mechanical methods, without prior written permission of the publisher, except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical reviews and certain other noncommercial uses permitted by copyright law. 49+55 pgs; 12 cm x 13 cm ISBN: 978-602-17180-0-1 First Edition: November 2012
Cleaving Your Deadlocks Apart! When coming across life’s obstacles, people ﬁnd ways to break through them. This book becomes one of the options in ﬁnding possibilities of the ways. What contains in this book is the essence of my experience advising tens of thousands of parents, children, couples, and professionals from diverse backgrounds. From encounter to encounter, I have seen how the diverse potential in human has not been recognized. I have also noticed that with just slightly inspiring slap, people gasp, are being touched, and suddenly glow. Then, they ﬁnd and recover their best forces.
As I have touched by the expressions of Peter F. Drucker, “Follow eﬀective action with quiet reﬂection. From the quiet reﬂection will come even more eﬀective action“, I also feel the need to do “quiet reﬂection“. From this reﬂection, and of course from the generosity of the hearts of the individuals who have been willing to tell me their experiences, I wish to share it through this book. This book does not contain analysis with convoluted arguments which could make your head dizzy. Nor it is a lengthy narrative about a theme. It contains quotations, short and simple. As far as the feedback I have received over these quotations, I understand why the readers before you sometimes have to “play around the words” and interpret the implied meanings diﬀerently based on their experiences and viewpoints.
The quotations that I have made are planned to grab your attention, to make you pause a moment from your activities, and to lead conversations between you and people around you. Or let’s just say, it is a brief conversation with a friend. Hopefully, this cleft of simple idea inspires awareness and brings important changes in your life.
Dr.Edy Suhardono IISA Assessment, Consultancy & Research Centre
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Matrimonial Quotations | 11 Parental Quotations | 19 Quotations on Problem Solving | 25 Quotations on Giftedness | 34
Happiness is felt when someone love and at the same time be loved. Here, matrimony becomes a person’s decision to achieve happiness through togetherness with a partner. Unfortunately, the road to happiness is not always smooth. Sometimes, a number of obstacles, challenges, and problems make the achievement of this goal aground in the middle of the road. Right thinking and attitude towards various marital obstacles, challenges, and...