Spanking is a Beneficial Form of Punishment
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Parents have always struggled with ways to appropriately discipline their children, especially in modern culture. Several years ago there would have been no question about acceptable forms of punishment. Today people can not parent their children the way they want to. There are radical groups out there that are dictating the way we care for them, and this is not right. When did society become so manipulative over our parental duties? Even in today’s society, a good old-fashioned spanking is still a beneficial form of punishment.
What is a spanking? Dictionary.com defines spanking as an open handed swat to the buttocks as a form of punishment. Many parents are confused by the fine line of spanking and abusing their kids. Abuse is when someone’s intent is harmful and injurious. Although I am for corporal punishment, I do not approve of children getting smacked with any foreign object or getting swatted any other place than the buttocks. Anything other than a swat to the behind is abuse, and swats to the buttocks should not leave welts or bruises. Spanking should be quick in duration with slight force. The American Academy of Pediatrics says “Any corporal punishment methods other than open-hand spanking on the buttocks or extremities are unacceptable and should never be used.” (MyFoxMemphis.com) So why would someone choose to use spanking as a way to discipline their children? “Many parents think spanking will teach children not to do things that are forbidden.”(KidSource.com). Other parents spank because that is how they were
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brought up. “It was good for me, I got spanked and I turned out alright.” (cocoamamas.com). Spanking provides structure, nurturance and control without nagging. (shvoong.com). Children will gain respect for their parents and learn lessons as a result. Some parents live by the Bible, “Spare the rod and spoil the child.” The Bible has seven different verses pertaining to disciplining your offspring. (religioustolerance.org). Other people tend to listen to statistics and advice from educated professionals.
Spanking, even though controversial is still a top method of punishment. “68% of American parents think spanking is not only good but essential. 90% of parents spank their toddlers at least three times a week: two-thirds spank them once a day. Studies show parents in the Northeast spank the least; parents in the South spank the most.” (neverhitachild.org). 21 States in the U.S still allow corporal punishment in our school systems. Although a handful of Americans consider spanking unacceptable, most should consider themselves lucky that they do not live in another country. “In Kenya, a school teacher can make the child kneel down in front of the classroom and beat them with the cane. Other times teachers can simply cane the children on the spot, as they sit in their chairs. By law they can only take six strokes at the child.” (chastisewithlove.com).
When should a child be spanked? Spanking should be used when a child lies, or is deliberately being disobedient. If the child is doing something dangerous that could Spanking is Beneficial 4 harm him or someone else, he should be spanked. However depending on your child’s age and maturity, you will have to determine how dangerous the behavior is. “If your child does something you have just told them not to do, that deserves a spanking. If you tell him to do something and he doesn’t do it, then that should result in an automatic spanking.” (angelfire.com).
Consistency is the key to good discipline. If you’re going to spank your children you need to be clear and concise. “Spanking should be followed by a short explanation.”...